Two wrongs don't make a right. So is this the best way to handle it?

Question

This is a question relating to me and my husband. I have a couple of other questions relating to this. ANd yes, it's very tempting not to call my husband the next time i'm due to. As I've stated, he requested me to call him, and now, he's ignoring me. But that isn't right either. I don't think he'll get the point I'm trying to make. I know I won't get a clear answer. I need definates in words at times, so this would just confuse me...not knowing what he thinks and feels. I don't want to fight over the phone, but it seems this is what it is coming to. I just want an effective verbal way of finding out what's going on so I can be clear on the issue w/o any doubts(if i don't call him like some have suggested...then he might not call me out of spite, not disinterest, and i don't want grey areas like that to exist for my own understanding).

He's the one who wanted me to call once a week. So i obliged. I knew what the conversations woudl be like. Shouldn't he atleast tell me to quit contact or something? i've already told him he needs to be direct with me...and he's done a pretty good job of it in the past...so what gives?

Answer 1

where is your husband that you need to be calling him anyway..

Answer 2

Is it just me or is this the second part of a two part question? From what I am reading here all I can do is scratch my head and wonder what you actually want to know.

Answer 3

first off, calm down!

honey, men have and live in their own lil world.......giv e it at least 3 hrs before trying again. by that time he prolly already saw a hot girl or talked about football and forgot what he was mad about.

give it time.

Answer 4

if this is the type of conversation you have with him, I can totally understand why he is not answering......