Last night we were out and this guy was talking about playing cards for money to both of us. My wife loves to play cards so she asked him for more details. She was just asking about the details and that's all. I was right there with her.
This guy kept on talking to my wife who is really attractive, about it and later on approached her when I wasn't nearby.
Without being rude she was giving him all the signals that she didn't want to talk to him anymore.
It was funny to see him keep on trying to "chat" her up and he would wait for me to walk away and then try again. Before he finally got the message.
So my question is why can't some men see that a woman isn't interested in them and even take obvious hints?
Is it that they think they are irresistable or they completely misconstrue everything that's said to them?
And why would a man think my wife would be after him especially when I am right their with her?
Are some people are just that stupid?
2007-11-29 05:51:03 · 11 answers · asked by Hypnotoad 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Are some people are just that stupid? <<< YES they are!
2007-11-29 06:20:57 · answer #1 · answered by Queenie` 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of the first thing I learned about sex and relationships was "a ring don't block the hole". In other words, you being married to this woman does not make it impossible for her to have sex with someone else. That being said, any guy may think he has a chance. There's a lot of women who would exchange numbers with a guy when their husband walked off and then act like they want this guy to leave when the husband comes back.
Also, women have a tendency to drop hints rather than offer direct communication. Most guys are not too good at figuring out women's little hints. If a guy is trying to hook up with a chick, the last thing he wants to do is assume that some small body movement (like a head turn or even silence) is a sign that she is not interested. If he walks away thinking she is uninterested but turns out she actually was and he was just mistaken, that means he walked away for nothing. He won't take little hints and stuff like that. You have to come right out and say it, "Do you mind ending this conversation? I have other things to do." It's not rude, and it gets straight to the point. Waiting for a a guy to pick up on clues and get the message is like waiting for the rapture. You're a guy; you should already know this stuff.
2007-11-29 14:17:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, a man asking this question is kinda funny to me. I would think that since you are a man, you know how men think. But its kind of a good thing- you are not retarded enough to think like this guy who was talking to your wife.
No, this guy is probably really persistent and doesn't see anything wrong with bothering a married woman while her husband walks away. I mean honestly, if a guy did this to me my hubby would be pissed off and say something to the jerk.
I would say to you that I am glad that you have a trustful wife and that you should keep her close and take care of her and be thankful that you have her.
2007-11-29 13:57:06 · answer #3 · answered by moon&stars 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, some guys just want what they want or are turned on by the challenge of turning a wife. Since persistence is persuasive, I would be extra good to you wife for the next few weeks. Besides, I'll bet she'll be more aroused in the coming weeks, so take advantage of it.
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2007-11-29 14:01:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men try the conquest anyway...they totally misconstrue the rejection....they think that because the conversation continues, that no means "you just haven't hit the right button yet" so they keep trying...
In order for a guy to get the "hint" it needs to be a direct "You suck at flirting~Go Away!!!"
Otherwise he keeps on trying....
2007-11-29 14:14:09 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd love for someone to shed some light on this, because I've had guys do the SAME thing to me! Married or single...you are nice to them once and then they just won't go away!!!!
I always chalk it up to they are thinking with the little head instead of the big head. And that just makes them stupid. These men are scary.
2007-11-29 13:56:45 · answer #6 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because somewhere down the line the idiot found that some women initially do play hard to get and there are some married women who do crave the attention.
2007-11-29 13:56:07 · answer #7 · answered by Sondra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not stupid he just doesn't care. If he hits on 20 woman it's only a matter of time that one will say yes. Law of averages.
2007-11-29 15:14:21 · answer #8 · answered by Kat G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because theyre cocky and they dont listen to what they dont want to hear
2007-11-29 13:55:59 · answer #9 · answered by shanaynay m 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, YOU ARE THE ONE hanging out with this dope! What does that say about YOU???!!
2007-11-29 14:07:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋