My wife will not stay off the computer,she's talking to guys and there asking to meet her and the dumb thing is she's been thinking about doing it every time she gets mad at me. Sex cybering and all,Not cool with me...Anybody having the same problem here? I sure hope not. Thank You All, Signed Lost in my own home.
2007-11-29 05:50:34 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Get a book called "the five love languages", have him read it too. they put it in a brown covered book now so he doesn't have to get caught reading a purple book. This book is awesome, I've had friends tell me if they would've had this book when they got married, they'd still be married. I give it to everybody that gets married. It's cheep and powerful.
On the other end, you might want to jump into "personality plus", another book that will blow your doors off as far as why he is like he is. you also find out why you are like you are.
I highly recomend you check these books out ASAP.
2007-11-29 05:52:30 · answer #1 · answered by dave49310 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My brother had the same problem. His wife was always on the computer. Every time he would come in the room she would minimize the screen. He finally got suspicious and asked to see what she was doing. She freaked out and he started to take the computer & she went crazy... hitting him and screaming etc....to make a long story short he took the computer to his attorney & they found out she was having cyber sex with some guy that had been in prison. Not only that, she was planning on running to another state to be with him and they were trying to set my brother up as being an unfit parent. Fortunatley this whole thing worked out. He divorced her and retained custody of the 2 children.
I really hope it's nothing like that in your case. Good Luck!
2007-11-29 09:12:15 · answer #2 · answered by Michelle D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit down with him and tell him that this has to end. He needs to enhance up and spend time together with his childrens. he's addicted to the computing gadget and ignores the little ones. Make a time. If he should be on the computing gadget after say 8:30, it incredibly is positive. the little ones are in mattress. you would be handed over, yet a minimum of the little ones is definitely not.
2016-10-09 22:27:18 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chris, your right it's not cool...In fact, it's disrespectful..There's no reason why she is even talking to these other guys when she's married to you...Let alone even thinking about meeting any of them...She apparently has no value for your marraige and for herself.. If that's the way she feels then maybe she should consider not staying married anymore..Obviously, she has no clue what being committed means and she doesn't care about you neither...You should let her know that if she continues to play these games then you will re-evaulate staying with her as an option...You don't derserve this and she doesn't deserve you...Marraige is based on ALOT more than what she's putting out...I hope you stand up for yourself and stand focus on you...What she is doing to you is out plain WRONG!
2007-11-29 07:50:20 · answer #4 · answered by Yvette D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As I see it there is two sides to every story..sure I talk on the internet and I have turn to others for when ,I have a husband that is always away ..he had his fun drinking running around with his friends for over 4 years..and left me and the kids behind now that he has his 3rd dui and facing jail time..he is this careing dad and husband..pffff im sorry to say its a little to late..you should have loved us when you had the chance.not ,after you know you are and will go to jail.life dont work that way.so comon you only make people see your side and I dont put all the blame on you .because I know I am guilty of thing too but for one thing I would never take drinking and partying over my family!
2007-11-29 06:39:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Boyfriend and kids are way more important and the time I do hav eon here is when everyone else has been taken care of and I normally just check e-mail and come on here to have a lil quiet time NO CYBER SEX THOUGH NU UH
2007-11-29 05:58:12 · answer #6 · answered by ღKrissyღ 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm sorry to hear that your wife is doing that to you. But I don't and wouldn't ever do that to my husband. I only go to three to five different websites most of the time and when he is home I usually stay off of it. I use it to pass the time when he isn't home and the kids are napping.
2007-11-29 05:55:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her she's all done with the computer. This road she's on cannot lead to any good. If she really loves you, she'll stop. Put a quick, simple end to the computer problem. Get rid of the computer now!!
2007-11-29 05:57:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like an issue you must address to her and be stern about it. Make HER choose you or the computer. If she finds the computer or these guys to be more important than she's just dead weight for you. However, if she makes actions to disconnect herself from the computer and interact with you more than you know that she loves you, she's just got a computer addiction.
2007-11-29 05:56:00 · answer #9 · answered by Mr Geek 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
The husband, and she doesn't sound like she is committed in her heart if she is always saying things like that when she gets mad. Sounds like she wish she did have the freedom to see other men and resents being stuck.
2007-11-29 05:56:19 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋