Myy best friend doesn't care about me and she hardly calls me.?

Question

My friend and I have two years difference.We were best friends in 2003. but after my friend went to new school.She started to neglect me.Now she doen't even think of me.I'm really SAD about this

Answer 1

This poem is a great thing when friendships dissolve

Reason, Season and Lifetime
..
People always come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime.
When you figure out which it is, you know exactly what to do.
When someone is in your life for a REASON,
it is usually to meet a need you have expressed outwardly or inwardly.
They have come to assist you through a difficulty,
or to provide you with guidance and support,
to aid you physically, emotionally, or even spiritually.
They may seem like a godsend to you, and they are.
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
Then, without any wrong doing on your part or at an inconvenient time,
this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
Sometimes they die. Sometimes they just walk away.
Sometimes they act up or out and force you to take a stand.
What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled; their work is done.
The prayer you sent up has been answered and it is now time to move on.

When people come into your life for a SEASON,
it is because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
They may bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh.
They may teach you something you have never done.
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season.
And like Spring turns to Summer and Summer to Fall,
the season eventually ends.

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons;
those things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation.
Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person/people (anyway);
and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas in your life.
It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.
Thank you for being part of my life.

I know how sad it is when a friendship ends and that really is apart of life. You can talk to her and tell her that you miss her and tell her that you understand she has gone to a new school and will be making new friends. Just ask her to go out sometime or do something. It's hard keeping in touch with people. I am really bad at that but it's doesn't mean she doesn't want to be friends with you. It's just harder to keep in touch.

Answer 2

Oh, Honey! It's time to let go and grow. This woman is no longer your friend. Letting go of love is very,very hard and it hurts... but if you stop and think about it... you have learned some really good things! Distance is rough on friendships. The best best friend is someone who you can see every day...who likes the same things you like and who is kind. Take a look at yourself to see where YOU are and look for a new best friend who has your same interests, a sense of humor and who doesn't think she's always right! Have a wonderful time! Hugs, Gina C.

Answer 3

I'm sad too because even though my best friend goes to the same school as me, we're the same age and have some classes together, she doesn't really give me the time of day. It's like she doesn't really care about our friendship. The little things I care about, she could care less about and she feels I overreact. I'm white and she's black and I feel there is no difference between us but she would rather talk to the people of her color more. To me a friend is a friend and thats also what she says but it doesn't seem that way.

Answer 4

Aaawwww. You poor thing. call her. Invite her over. But if it doesn't work out as a friendship anymore, don't let it eat away at you. This happened to me and my pal Trisha*. She never called me or answered my e-mails. And I couldn't call her cuz she moved house and I don't know her new number. She ignores me now. I guess it just didn't work out. You just find someone nice who will appreciate you, She'll be your new BFF. It's fine to be sad. I still am. But you just need to get on with it, cry once in a while, and find new friends. Who knows, you may get back together. for now, accept it. I feel so bad for you. I hope you feel better soon. I'll wish you the best of luck. take care

Answer 5

Well, the best thing to do is talk to your bestfriend about the situation! You have to remember that friends come and go all the time, and especially since your bestfriend went to a new school! She has probably met a lot of new people and has moved on with her life! Maybe you should do the same?

Answer 6

It's funny u said she does'nt even think of u.. which begs 2 question how do u know what she thinks? haha ur being 2 quick ...slow down , call her let her know what ur feeling and if she's really ur friend u'll come 2 a comprimise..if not leave that situation richer 4 having had those years of fun and move on 2 other adventures!! It'd be her loss and a new friends gain!!

Answer 7

I don't mean to be so straigt 4wrd about this, but honestly it's happened to me way to many times to not tell you to just forget about it. Friends come and go and even though it hurts sometimes, you just need to move on. Seriously. If she's already not wanting to keep the distanced relationship together, what's the point of placing it on such a thin thread. Let it go. You know it's the truth.

Answer 8

Going to new schools will cause one to make new friends and that seems to be what has happened to your friend. You should also be making more friends. Sorry about your loss of this best friend but there are plenty of other people out there that can be as good a friend as the one you had. Look around you. Good luck to you

Answer 9

Move on..Make new friends. It is part of life. People come and go in our lives. As years pass, people change and drift apart. Sometimes circumstances plays a role in this. So don't get depressed. Just move on and make some new friends.

Answer 10

Friendships come and go, you "were" best friends in 2003, that's in the past right? Move on, and make new friends, just one last comment: best friends remain like that forever, no matter what.