I got mad at one of my friends, so then she was talking about me behind my back. She told most of my friends that I didn't like them and now no one is talking to me! What should I do?
2007-11-29 04:58:44 · 27 answers · asked by soccerxxshot#16 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
UGH that's a rough one!
You should confront her in front of them and calmly ask, "is that really what I said, now come on, tell the truth"
Good luck!
2007-11-29 05:03:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Isn't growing up a pain in the neck sometimes? As hard as it may be, if you feel you were in th wrong to get mad with her, you need to apologise.Humour works best, but if you can't get near her, a little ecard, hand made card or a text might get you two talking again. Once you've managed that, you can ask her to explain why she said what she said to all of your other friends. If the only place you see your friends is at school, then by Monday morning it might all have blown over - friendships are hard at the best of times, no matter how old you are! You have to be honest and admit you're wrong when you are and ask the other person to see reason if they were wrong. Life is too short to fight all the time, next time you're on the point of falling out, ask yourself "is this argument really worth the hassle it's going to cause me?" Sometimes we need to bite our tongue and tell the other person how they made us feel when we are calm again. I hope that helps and don't worry, real friends know that you don't ever mean to hurt them, it just happens sometimes. Have fun!!! It's more important than anything!
2007-11-29 05:10:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Dear,
Good friends are hard to find, and also remember you have to be a good friend yourself! Most of all be a friend to yourself, don't let anyone or thing get you so down that you can't function. Hold your head up, look in the mirror and ask yourself do I need these people? Are these people contributing to my life in a positive way or taking from my life. Then once you answer these questions honestly, you'll know what to do!
I believe in you!
2007-11-29 05:07:52 · answer #3 · answered by babybuds 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When people do that to you all it means is they are jelous and they have to tell people bad things about you to make you look bad and themselfs look better and by the way if she is doing this to you then she was not a friend in the first place But like i said when poeple say bad things you should feel good cause they are Jelous,,,,so walk with you head up and if there ppoeple are beleiveing her and they are not itleast calling you and asking you about it then who are they any way to care a real friend will call you and be stright up and ask if you said those things are if it is true.
2007-11-29 05:08:54 · answer #4 · answered by tonyad143 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok... sounds like you have a big friend problem. If your friend does that behind your back when your mad at her... You need to choose better friends... I wouldnt be her friend again! So... Maybe if you talk to your friends they'll believe you and if not they arent true friends im guessing
Good luck!
Remember no one is perfect at finding friends!
2007-11-29 05:03:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having arguments is what makes us human. If you never had a disagreement with anyone, how would you know how they really feel about you. The thing is...Was the disagreement petty and worth your friendship? If you answered yes, then you need to apologize to that friend and mend the relationship, then she will fix the others. If you answer no, then you've done yourself a favor by disassociating yourself from someone who wasn't really your friend to begin with. Hope this helps. God Bless.
2007-11-29 05:10:33 · answer #6 · answered by calicolabri 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Work out the problem with the friend you got made at and then talk to your other friends.
2007-11-29 05:01:33 · answer #7 · answered by Doodles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Email your friends and tell them what really happened..
You were playing fair but now you have to get revenge or else she will keep trying to ruin you...
get your friend back let her feel like the one left out for awile then work it out between you to.. MAybe shes not a great friend after all eh?
2007-11-29 05:02:36 · answer #8 · answered by cbabysnugglebunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act like this doesn't bother you .. obviously your friend has some kind of problem and you don't have to sink to that level. Tell your friends that they can believe the bull that comes out of her mouth or ignore what she says .. Good luck x
2007-11-29 05:03:32 · answer #9 · answered by MOONWALKER1♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST OF ALL YOU NEED TO DROP THAT FRIEND....SHE CAN'T BE TRUSTED....WHATEVER THE PROBLEM WAS...IT SHOULD'VE STAYED BETWEEN YOU TWO....AND AFRIEND WHO GETS MAD AND TALKS BHIND YOU'RE BACK IS NOT A FRIEND AT ALL....TALK TO YOUR OTHER FRIENDS AND TELL THEM THE TRUTH.....TELL THEM WHY YOU GOT MAD AT HER....TELL THEM THAT SHE'S JUST BITTER....DON'T DO IT BEHIND HER BACK...MAKE SURE SHE HEARS IT....PUT HER ON THE SPOT....BECAUSE LIARS DON'T REACT WELL WHEN YOU PUT THEM ON THE SPOT!!!!!
LET HER KNOW THAT YOU WON'T BE TAKING HER CRAP ANY LONGER....
P.S TRY TO DO THIS WITHOUT FOUL LANGUAGE...SHOW HER THAT YOU'RE ABOVE HER LEVEL...
2007-11-29 05:12:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋