2007-11-29 04:54:33 · 16 answers · asked by Tracy Terry 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I'm thinking, my Dear One, you have no idea what a "good relationship" actually is. I have a 27 marriage to the Love of my life and I see by the postings that a lot of the Long Term Folks have signed in. We're not uptight. We just know what we want and are willing to wait until we get it. There's certainly nothing wrong with that and I hope you too find the person you need to make you happy. Blesing, Dearest.
2007-11-29 05:06:29 · answer #1 · answered by Mama Otter 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Dear Tracy Terry,
WHAT?!?
From what I've seen in the last ten years or so, most lesbians are involved in "good" steady relationships. Many of them have lasted for decades.
As for the gay males I know? What can I say about all that testosterone and the need to breed that ant been said? Men will be men, and without that “feminine influence” in the mix they do seem to get a lot of enjoyment from the “Looking for Mr. Right-now.” But once they find THE man… Yes I know several gay male couples in LTRs
But IF you are that worried about the LGBT communities LTRs how about our being allowed to legally commit to them, like hetero couples do? If your partner has the legal ability to walk out with half of your life together maybe gays will be less interested in playing Capt. Kirk and bedding all the “strange, green and sexy” they can get.
Hugs,
PennyAnn
2007-11-29 11:32:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Haha, Gay and Lesbian couples have fine relationships, so I don't know which sexually uptight gays and lesbians you are referring to. I'm in a great relatinoship thank ya very much. :)
Our relationships are the same as your relationships. Sometimes they're amazing, and sometimes they're not. It just depends on what your relationship is like.
2007-11-29 06:05:05 · answer #3 · answered by red92fh 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
So I'm guessing you are either straight or ignorant. As I am in a good relationship and not uptight sexually.
But the same can be said about every grouping of people, "why don't they know how to have a good relationship" Maybe whomever hasn't met the right person, maybe they aren't ready for a relationship, maybe that's not what they want. Some people prefer to not be in a relationship, some want monogamous, some want open. It's the same in every classification of sexuality.
2007-11-29 04:59:57 · answer #4 · answered by Jyse 6 · 7⤊ 2⤋
Sorry to burst your bubble but...
I am a lesbian. I am not uptight sexually. And I believe that I do know how to have a good relationship as I am in one right now. Matter of fact, our exchange of vows anniversary is coming up next month and I will be flying over continents and oceans just to see her during the holidays. We are very much devoted to each other. ;)
2007-11-29 05:02:38 · answer #5 · answered by J. McCoy 5 · 7⤊ 2⤋
Maybe you only know really sucky gays and lesbians. I personally know how to have great relationships, and so do most of the other gay people I know. I'm not going to lie and say they all do, but I'm also not going to tell you that all straight people know how to have a good relationship, either.
2007-11-29 05:24:28 · answer #6 · answered by Sara H 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I doubt I would ever say I am uptight sexually. I have been with my husband for five years today (it's our anniversary yay!). We have a loving romantic relationship and a healthy sexlife.
2007-11-29 08:42:34 · answer #7 · answered by c i 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What makes you think that I'm uptight? You don't even know me. Granted, I'm a prude, but that's because I'm more conservative in my nature.
I have a great relationship. 14 yrs and counting. We have our problems, but any couple does. We know that the keys to a successful relationship are communication, compromise, and understanding.
Please, since you have not been elected to speak for me.....don't.
2007-11-29 05:00:33 · answer #8 · answered by Oberon 6 · 3⤊ 2⤋
i personaly was in a long term relationship till he past away of brain cancer...i know many gay ppl in long term relationships..I kno a gay couple that hav ben together since they were 16 and now they ner 48....so yes it does happen..and not everyone is uptight sexually
2007-11-29 11:48:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you are only seeing a small minority of gay people. Some are struggling with their relationships the same way anybody else struggles. Maybe it's a harder for gay people because there are so many gay phobics casting shadows on their validity... But Most are doing just fine.
2007-11-29 05:01:26 · answer #10 · answered by cherokee_jack 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋