If a man is cheating on his fiancee...?

Question

for a whole year and the fiancee has NO CLUE, and the other woman keeps letting him over just for sex because that's all she was to the man in the first place, and then the man comes back to his family (fiancee and 2 kids), doesn't that make the other woman look stupid???????? especially since the other woman wants him to leave his family for her and marry her and be a father to her 3 children who have different fathers and she has no clue who the fathers are? give me your honest opinion please!

btw, the man goes to the woman just for sex like a few times a month but goes back to his family everytime and doesn't love the other woman since he thinks of her as a big whore...

Answer 1

that other woman needs to clean up her act or else she will look a lot cheaper than a swine soon,she should think about her children,and start a new beginning,and just loose that man cause he just using her for fun and games,she made a mistake in multiple times and she doesnt need to do it again for the 4th time cause she will a lot worse than a dog

Answer 2

In this situation the other women would be the one looking stupid if she does want more.As far as the man he is stupid to because if the other women wants more she will eventually want revenge for being treated like a whore.Now the main issue is between the man and the mistress unless the wife knows then she has the issue of if she wants to stay with a cheater or does it even matter to her if she can view it as only sex.My personal opinion is everyone deserves loyalty from their spouse,I think that the wife should see how much does he really care about that other women.If he just wants sex ask him to get another whore besides her,but if he wont then it my be a little more then just sex.

Answer 3

I don't think either one presents themselves as being too smart. It seems that you are saying that this man is thinking of the other woman as a piece of *ss and that she doesn't mean anything to him. Well, how stupid is he, to risk losing everything for a little bit of nothing? And as for the other woman, she isn't too bright to expect the man to want her for more than her body when he has made it clear that that is all he wants her for and she is showing him that he still gets what he wants with no commitment. I think that they are both pretty ignorant to the workings of relationships, and if he can't keep the snake in the cage, then he needs to be a gentleman and let his fiancee go so that she may find a man that is worth her time and efforts.

Answer 4

I think that someone should tell the fiance before she says "I do" and makes a blind mistake!
I also think that neither one of the women should be with this cheating fool. The women and their children deserve a husband/father who will be honest and devote himself entirely to that family!
I don't think the other woman looks stupid, just somewhat weak. She needs someone to be there for her and if this man is willing to do it, even just a few times a month, it probably makes her feel better. She needs to find her own man though- one that doesn't have a record of cheating and lying.

What a mess!

Answer 5

In the beginning you said the other woman only wants him for sex, then you say she wants him to leave his family. Which is it? The fact that the woman has 3 children by 3 unknown men really has nothing to do with the situation. My honest opinion is the woman needs to get a grip on reality, that man isn't leaving his family for her. She needs to grow up , be responsible and move on.

Answer 6

Im sure it makes her feel bad thats why im sure the cat will be let out of the bag and the fiancee will find out.She shouldn't have gotten with an engaged maN anyways its like shes a prostitue only around for sex. If the other woman is jealous she will say something so he can't have his cake and eat it too, beware!!!!

Answer 7

My honest opinion would be I do not care whether he goes to the other woman or not but he would find all his clothes out on the front lawn as well. I do not think it is right to be unfaithful and I do not think you need to be polluted by such a man and would take a long time if ever if the trust would come back. If he goes to her then they deserve each other and you fleece him for what he has .

Answer 8

If a man is cheating on his fiancee, she should be a fiancee no longer.
I agree, the OW looks stupid for being used for sex, but the man looks even worse...messing up what he has at home!
That makes about as much sense as going out for a hamburger when you have filet mignon at home.

Answer 9

It makes both women stupid!

The whore he is sneaking off to is stupid to want a man that would do that...

The screwball he is engaged to is stupid if she letting him back in her bed after visiting the flea bag HO-tell...if she knows.

Although..at least the fiance while having two kids with the @ss was smart enough NOT to marry him.

Hope she wisens up and finds a man!

Tell your friend, family, self..whomever you are writing about to get checked for STDS!

Answer 10

If the fiancee knows of his activities, then it's not the OTHER woman that is stupid but her. Why would ANY woman want to be with a man that is sleeping around is beyond me? The possiblity of him contracting a fatal disease is astronimical and then her getting and possibly passing it on to her kids...

You said she doesn't know, but I guessing she does. And if she doesn't and your consider yourself a friend to her, then it is your obligation to tell her. How are you going to feel when he contracts HIV/Aids and passes it on to her and their kids have to watch both die.

Good luck!