My mom tells me all time that I don't have a life i think i do my daily routine is get up go to school do my homework study watch tv and practice all of my instruments and occasionaly i go out with my friends. If this doesn't seems like a life tell me how can I improve it so i can get a life if it seems like i have a life tell me how i can make it more exciting. Thx
2007-11-29 01:27:36 · 6 answers · asked by EternalMemories0 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Dear EternalMemories0:
After viewing some of your Public
Record here~ I would say you are
a very typical example of a teen.
Re: "Get A Life"?
It all has to do with one's FOCUS!
What are a person VALUES!
What is Important to people?
How does one utilize their time
& energy? Are you productive?
Do you THINK Of Others?
Empathy is KEY!
For you?
Sure~ you get up~ go to school~
come home~ study~ & enjoy friends!
So what? That is MINIMUM Effort!
You wish to know what is "cute"!
You are concerned *what is "hot"!
You wish to focus on HAIR,
Pop Artists, how to get rid of scars~
& take care of skin. That's fine. BUT .....
This could be Construed as VERY
Shallow & Un-Sophisticated. This
kind of focus is self-absorption.
How about HELPING & Thinking
of OTHERS? What about walking
up to Mom & saying: "What Can I Do
Today to help YOU~ & be a better
PERSON?" Can I Volunteer to help
others *who are LESS Fortunate?
You started to get "On-Track" by
inquiring about Armstrongs Wrist
Bands about Cancer Support!
Good Girl! :-)
What about using our Brains to
ponder other things of Import~
besides shallow little *physical things?
(Again~ this is Normal for U & ur friends)
But focus on other things too?
Develope your own ~
"EMOTIONAL-INTELLIGENCE" !
Study Human Behaviors, be CREATIVE
& learn to THINK for yourself!
Our BRAINS are NOT fully developed
until we are over 25 yrs. old! What does
this mean? Our decision making
capabilities are NOT fully Neurologically
engaged until this time. We lack the
capacity to REALLY View LIFE with
all of the *Full Flavors!
What can YOU Do to show Mom
that your Pathway of life is progressing?
*Think of others! Volunteer your time!
Be considerate to Mom! Help Her More!
Do NOT focus so much on little B.S.
"girly-girl" things!
*Consider selecting & thinking about a
"Realistic Marketable JOB Skill"~
that will sustain a Productive & Profitable
LIFE for you! Use LESS time pondering
you skin, hair & "cuteness" !! Focus
more on many other matters of IMPORT!
What are you doing for YOUR Future?
How are you preparing TODAY?
*How about READING MORE?
Learn something Essential~ every DAY!
Study LIFE & other Cultures! What is
happening in the Political Arena? How
can YOU MAKE A Difference? How can
YOU Be *THE Best YOU CAN BE?
(This is FROM the INSIDE! NOT your
Hair, nails or skin!)
EternalMemories0~
Enjoy your youth! But show Mom that
you are NOT so Self-Centered or too
SHALLOW! Study LIFE & Philosophy!
Use your time productively! Help
around the house without being ASKED!
Does this answer give you any ideas~
or plant a seed within you?
THINK!
Show this message to Mom!
Ask her what she thinks of this Feedback!
Good Luck~EternalMemories0
Have FUN!
FOCUS on the True ESSENTIALS!
It is our DAILY Improved Actions~
THAT REALLY DEFINE US!
SHOW Mom that you have a LIFE!
Waking up, school, hair & TV do NOT
constitute "A LIFE"! ACTIONS of
Advanced MATURITY *DO!
2007-11-29 02:31:03 · answer #1 · answered by LedHead 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can try to help her do some household chores, pamper her by buying or making coffee, giving her massages on the shoulder.
Sometimes mums can be a bit nagging on you, just show her you care for her. It is not that you do not have a life, maybe it is a way of her communicating with you.
2007-11-29 09:34:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u should hang out with your friends more
but thats seem like a life 2 me
2007-11-29 09:33:02 · answer #3 · answered by Tweeter2010 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you enjoy it thats fine. maybe she thinks you ae unhappy, but explain to her that you are more of a solitary person then a social one. im quite similar but have always been ok.
also i would hope that my children are like you and have drive for learning and seem happy!!! maybe chat with your mum and see what she wants-but if you dont like it stay as you are!!!
2007-11-29 09:57:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As fas as I can see, you have a life, a well balanced life. Is your mom serious about that? Maybe she's just kidding when she said that.
Don't worry. :D
2007-11-29 09:32:58 · answer #5 · answered by Rafael Karlo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not someone who needs a life,
BUT I DO!!!!!!
2007-11-29 09:51:11 · answer #6 · answered by starcraft961 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋