what should be me next step?

Question

OK, i have gone through the ordeal of telling my family the truth that i might be gay (female) and that went well.
Then i talked to my husband about me taking some time to myself to find myself.
basically i plan to time-out from my both relationships and spend time with myself, then from there i'll know who i want to be with.
what should be my next step in order to do this without complicating the situation any further?
they both said they would give me this time to do this and they both would wait for me at the end but they take every oppertunity to be there as much as they(he or she)can so i won't have too much time to myself... any advice would be appreciated.

Answer 1

find an attractive female to show you whats up w the sexual side of your curiosity . youll be halfway lost until you experience the love you feel in a physical way . from there , negotiate the rocky path of your husband , family and the disaproving socity at large .

Answer 2

I'm a little confused. Are you currently in a relationship with another woman as well as still married to your husband? Do you and your husband realize that this could take quite some time for you to figure out. If you're not in a relationship with another woman, has he given you the ok to experiment? Good luck to you. I've been going through a similar thing, but my husband and I separated a year ago. It's taken me that long to accept who I am. Good luck with everything.

Answer 3

Can you really take time out to get away? You really need to back away from them both. You can not make a honest decision with them both in your face while giving you time to yourself. If you have a friend who does not live in the immediate area, maybe you could stay with them for a while. You really need to get back to you. I do not envy your situation. Good luck to you.