I have been dating my bf for the past 3 days. Him and I have so much chemistry (he was the first boyfriend Ive had since becoming gay) hes been beating me and calling me stupid! I mean we like the kinky stuff and thats what I thought he was doing at first but when he beat me in the middle of church I knew something was up. What should I do?? I love him so much
2007-11-29 00:54:53 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Hitting is a major deal breaker. If he hits you then he doesn't love you or respect you. You are too good of a person to let someone beat you. If he doesn't have enough respect or love for you, then you have enough for yourself to leave him alone. I wish you the best.
2007-11-29 01:24:14 · answer #1 · answered by gabriel l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If someone beats you after 3 days....the answer is simple: walk away. No chemistry (or kinky stuff) is worth that price. Feel confident about yourself, you can find someone much better than that. Don't let abusive people take advantage of you. Love without respect is not love.
2007-11-29 02:12:54 · answer #2 · answered by Ladyoasis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 days and you're already doing kinky stuff and he's your BF and you love him so much? He beat you in the middle of church, it's Thursday, do you go to church on Monday Tuesday or Wednesday because that sounds suspect. Snap out of it, sister. You are living in a fantasy world.
2007-11-29 01:28:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend is nothing more than a stick keyboard! That good for nothing snapple bottle!
Next time he pushes you around in church, start an all out brawl. Rip the holy water thingys off the wall and slam him in the face! Grab the crucifixes and come down on his asss! Drag the fight onto the altar and throw each other around. Smack the priest a few times while you're at it and throw some altar boy chairs.
2007-11-29 01:00:53 · answer #4 · answered by bobrekrabold 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok...simple
You need to do one of three things.
1: Talk to him about it. I
2: Leave the relationship. It Is NOT ok for him to do that.
3: Sock him back. (not really, but do protect your self.
Give these guys a call: National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) or TTY 1-800-787-3224.
2007-11-29 01:03:27 · answer #5 · answered by Ken Husky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im not gay but i certainly know that dude,,,,,,,he doesnt love you and you shud never run after things that dont deserve you, dump him and even you dont love him,,,love takes time and 3 days are certainly not enough
well if you really want to be happy find someone else because you will only end up crying in this "realtionship"
gud luk
2007-11-29 01:00:08 · answer #6 · answered by princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not love , it's infatuation. Get rid of him and find a boyfriend who appreciates you a bit more. Dump the Jerk.
2007-11-29 01:01:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
gettin beat in the middle of church sux.
2007-12-01 09:53:33 · answer #8 · answered by saramae1980 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how you feel...does he have a short temper??
my bf is bi polar and so when he gets mad you dont want to mess with him....i know you love him but try to sit him down and talk to him about it. i told mine that if he does it again were done for good and ill have him locked up!
2007-11-29 02:45:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok if you really love him so much ... just let him know how you feel...or to be honest it seems he dosnt really likes you cause well love isnt about hitting or calling people names its about trusting loving and carring.....i dont mean to make you feel sad or mad......i just want to help....just whatever your decision is...rember that you shouldnt let anyone make you feel belittled by anyone...and hit at .....
always hold ur head up high...and find yourself a better partner ...theirs lots of sweet guys or girls out their that well ...you can feel better with...which is what love is really about....feeling and be felt by your partner.....anyways hope i helped and good luck....
anymore help just feel free to IM me ...
2007-11-29 03:22:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋