I am being serious now. I mean I am serious now.
Here is the thing:
1- You're in a dilemma that requires some thinking then making a decision.
2- It's not a love dilemma or anything, it's usually related to work, or relationships. Not romantic relationships, but relationships with co-workers or family relationships.
3- You have no one to ask for advice because you are the only one who understands the full dimensions of the situation. You're on your own.
4- You make a decision. Let's call this decision "x".
5- It turns out that "x" was not the best decision to make, but you still have no regrets because you had no one to tell you what to do.
6- People start to blame you, or you start to blame yourself after you witness the side-effects of x.
7- The problem is there is never a "y" solution and all the solutions are "x1", "x2" , "x3" with side effects for each.
2007-11-29 00:24:55 · 14 answers · asked by Ismaily Rules 4 in Travel ➔ Africa & Middle East ➔ Egypt
I know what I typed up there makes no sense. Hopefully, Kalooka will explain. Explain ya Sameh.
I am trying to say " Do you find yourself in situations when you make a decision and it appears to have bad consequences and when people start to blame you, you think "I made my decision according to the circumstances of the situation and I could not come up with anything better than that!
Can you give me examples?
Pfffffff
ok, ok. I made no sense.
Who's your favorite "scrubs" character?
2007-11-29 00:28:28 · update #1
Ya ged3an law sam7t.
I was serious.
Ma ba7bsh el tahreeg fel hezar.
2007-11-29 00:44:47 · update #2
Hey there Ismaily,
Strangely enough i think i understood what yr trying to say, this decision X was made by you, coz you didn't have the y option in yr mind or even on the horizon of yr thoughts. So my advice is drop y from yr thinking for now.
Going back to X, my advice don't ever regret something you did, just try to consider X1 and 2 and 3, the one with the least possible bad influence or effects on people around you, is the way to go, coz i feel you could live with hurting yourself but not the others around us and also you ll feel better coz in a way you made right what you unintentionally did wrong.
Sa7, please tell me i got it right.........
As for scrubs, i love them all, especially the janitor.
Take care.
Edit: Ismaily, enta kont bethazar, now i look and feel really dumb.........
2007-11-29 00:55:14 · answer #1 · answered by Hope 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
People with low self esteem like to blame others so that they appear as if they know better, they want to appear like this to others and to themselves. So calm down, it is their problem not yours. Do not answer accusations like this. Change the subject. You did your best. If new elements came up after you thought well and made your decision it is not your fault. It is a game some people like to play with others to make them feel guilty, a game needs two to play it, do not play and the game will stop.
2007-11-29 05:57:26 · answer #2 · answered by Balsam 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all Mr Ismaily i like the way you put your problem. i m serious..
i say to people when they start to blame me, the same thing you have said, i gave it my best shot at with best knowledge at hand at that time..and if you don't like it then keep your opinion to yourself please..something like that..
i like the african american guy, he's so funny!
2007-11-29 02:18:22 · answer #3 · answered by Kalooka 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I usaully attack people who bames me , I take my decisions and I bear the consequences alone , so it's not anyone's problem .
about scrubs : I love nurse karla , I have a thing for nurses
2007-11-29 01:26:16 · answer #4 · answered by hasafer 7 · 8⤊ 0⤋
i usually ignore the ppl who blame me,telling them it's me who made the decision and I'll tolerate the consequences...so they shut up and keep their noses out of my business..
and my favorite scrub is nurse Carla of course...
2007-11-29 01:34:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
mesh ba2oolek enta el noo3 ely betakhdo gamed awy
2007-11-29 00:32:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
u make many decisions in life n some times decisions r not gud...but ur heart says u do it...n dat time no one is dere to tell u ...dan y regrets... if u make mistakes dan next time u will not....others cant take ur personal decisions....n if u make some dan y ppl r tellin u...jus ignore dam n do wat u heart say...
n if ppl know wat to do at dat time dan y they didnt tell u before....
2007-11-29 05:07:07 · answer #7 · answered by Amara 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
x=x1
x=x2
x=x3
so x1=x2=x3
that's what came to my mind
2007-11-29 00:40:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Got it.
The simple answer is:
x1+x2+x3+x4+...............+xn= Salat Este7'ara
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2007-11-29 02:41:18 · answer #9 · answered by Sultan Shalfat the Adventurer 5 · 5⤊ 1⤋
my ONLY advice for you,Ismaily :
contact Ruby as soon as possible .
why?
3ndha bango amricany ..... aslyyyyyyy
badal el bango el ismailawy el madroob dah .....
yallah ......... bel shefaa
nyahahahahaha :D
2007-11-29 01:27:10 · answer #10 · answered by ღ Scent of a Woman ღ 4 · 7⤊ 0⤋