I had sex with a guy on July 30 then another guy on August 4.My last period was 7/19/07,who is the father?

Question

I appreciate the concern with diseases and stuff, I am trying to figure this out as I was assaulted and never reported the incident. I am 4 months and dont know if I should terminate, if its the rapist child I dont want the child. thats all.

Answer 1

Your doctor should be able to trace back to the date of conception. Get yourself checked out

Answer 2

Take your period, count backwards 14 days. That's likely your ovulation date (as long as you dont have any medical problems and a normal 28 day period). Sperm can live inside you up to 7 days after insemination.

In YOUR case, you'd count 28 days forward (counting day 1 on the date you started) from the beginning date of your last period to when YOU SHOULD HAVE started the next period. Then take that day as day 1 and count backwards 14 days. That would mean you ovulated around August 2nd (given you have a textbook 28 day cycle and always start on-time).
You had sex with man number 1, approx 4 days before said ovulation date. You had sex with man number 2, approx 2 days after said ovulation date.

I say man number 1 as a guess. However, if you ovulated LATE (because you don't have normal cycles, you never start your periods on time, etc) then I'd say possibly man number 2 but get a DNA test anyway.

If you're still not sure, after figuring that out, get a DNA test - see your doctor. Having sex with 2 diff men within 5 days of each other and around your ovulation time well you're bound to be confused! I would still get the DNA test done.

Good Luck.

Answer 3

Ovulations, cycles, etc are far too inaccurate to tell a difference of 6 days. I'm sorry but there is simply NO WAY anyone can tell with any certainty until a DNA test is given at birth.

You might want to seek out some counseling assistance on how to break this to both men. This is NOT something to be discussed AFTER the baby is born. You need to address this in a rationale adult manner now, before you know the father.

Good luck.

Answer 4

You had sex with 2 guys within 5 days of each other - during that time - if you have a normal ovulation schedule - you were most likely fertile. There is no way to do the math to figure it out. It would be easier had it been a month apart or even two weeks - looks like you're going to have to wait til that baby is born and get a DNA test. Good luck to you.

Answer 5

Hey you dont have to lie we dont know you if you had unprotected sex with two guys that you may or may not have know thats all on you but you had sex close together go to babycenter.com and do the due date counter it should tell you when you got pregnant well good luck and be careful unprotected sex is nothing to play with you will suffer in the long run just be a little more smarter about that subject now that your are pregnant think about your baby.

Answer 6

Gee. It's almost as if you were TRYING to become pregnant with no idea who the father was. You just couldn't have picked a better time to inflict maximum drama and suspense on yourself.

It could be either one of them. Unless you know exactly when you ovulated after 7/19. And unless you've been charting your cycle, you can't know that.

So you're just going to have to setle this with a DNA test after the baby is born.

Answer 7

How long is your cyclye? If it is normal 28 days and regular then I would say the July 30 guy.

Answer 8

Most likely the one from the 30th. You will ovulate 14 days from the day you start your period. You may want to go back and count how you were ovulaiting February-July and then you may have a better idea.

Answer 9

That will have to wait till the baby is born then do DNA test.

Answer 10

guy on july 30