Bologna as BS ??
I am married since 8 years, we have two kids, but although you "love", you also "keep it "alive". There is no such thing as a happy marriage I think. To argue , is normal, to have fights, is too ! You give more than you take , you still love, but it's just so far from "perfect" ! Haven't you ever said , during a fight, out of the blue, "I want a divorce"? You know you don't mean it, but you just so happen to say it out loud !!!!!
2007-11-28 22:58:45 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Some of you answerers, didn't read the question well. Another question, lost in translation ! Geez !
2007-11-28 23:09:05 · update #1
Thanks Lefty !!
2007-11-29 01:24:41 · update #2
Sorry Clo I have to disagree with you.
My husband and I have been married for 13 years and yes we have our little tiffs,but that does not mean we dont have a happy marriage.
We do have a Happy marriage.We get along so well and respect each other which makes us happy.It's way better now then when we first got married (the getting to know one another stage).lol
2007-11-28 23:10:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
I think some people are only happy if they can endlessly harp over every single imperfection. In my view, those 2 slip-ups on the mic were nothing more than minor errors that I am more than happy to let slide. BQ: I'm pretty sure there was at least one time many years ago in which The Undertaker spoke more than he did last night, but I'm not 100% certain on that, mostly because I'm unable to remember exactly when that time was. BQ2: I give it a 9 out of 10. I know how much of a contradiction this must seem like, but those 2 slips from Undertaker prevent me from giving it the full 10 out of 10 because a 10 means "perfect". What I'm trying to say (by giving it a 9) is the Taker/Shawn promo was as good as it could be without crossing into the realm of perfection.
2016-04-06 03:22:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am married and I don't think a happy marriage is bolonga. I think there is a certain line you do not cross including mentioning the D word; divorce. We have not been married that long but have been together for a very long time. The entire time that we have known each other we never call each other out of their name. The worst that we say is "shut up." We say hardheaded, goofball or things like that. Even when you are angry certain things you can never take back. My husband makes me angry. I make him angry. Even in anger, this is the father of my children, the man that I have loved most of my life. If you never thought it when you were not angry, you would never say it when you were. We only argue now and again. Most of the time we have a good time together, laughing and spending time with our kids. When I am 80, I hope we will be the same way. Walking a little slower, but still holding hands.
2007-11-28 23:37:57 · answer #3 · answered by 2fine4u 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you because marriage is like an elementary school friendship. One day you're best friends, and the next you're enemies because one of you wants to play baseball and the other wants to play house at recess. But then you decide it's not worth losing a friendship over and you stay friends again, after you decide what you can do to please both of you. I suppose that you could even go your seperate ways for a while... but chances are you will want to be friends again sometime. Like a friendship, marriage truly can't b perfect unless you're a robot or zombie. The reason being:
Humans aren't perfect!!! =]
2007-11-28 23:05:47 · answer #4 · answered by J.Faber 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-02-11 10:29:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been married almost 25 years. I have a Happy Marriage. But, I don't go around bragging about it unless someone asks how long have I been married. Being married takes a lot of hard work. I agree with you.
2007-11-28 23:05:04 · answer #6 · answered by gigischildcare 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
yes your exactly right there is no perfect marriage & some people think that there is perfect love out there. it just does not happen. i was married for six years we had kids,good times, & arguments. she decided to end the marriage for someone else which she thought was going to be perfect love. after 2 years with this guy she is not happy at all & regrets her decision.
2007-11-28 23:05:22 · answer #7 · answered by 2gadoo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To some degree I will agree with you. I have been married for 11 years and yes I also have a few arguments. And what you're saying is true, but I also say I am happily married. So I guess I fall into the category you're speaking of. LOL
2007-11-28 23:34:22 · answer #8 · answered by GRUMPY 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No I don't think it's bologna. I've been happily married for 30 years. No one's life is perfect - - but a good partner can make even the bad times better.
2007-11-28 23:02:49 · answer #9 · answered by Awesome★Possum♕҉☮♪♥♠♦♣♫ღ☼✔♀✫ஐ¤Δ☺◎ 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
NO marriage is perfect and after twenty plus years I can tell you it's all about compromise!!! You give to get and if both don't give you better plan to move on :) If your happy then you and the hubby must be doing something right!
2007-11-28 23:08:18 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋