Honest unbiased opinion on my weight?

Question

Okay, so I've been getting alot of mixed messages from people on weight lately, I'm fine the way I am, gain weight, lose weight, etc. And I want an opinion from some people who won't judge me and won't let their prior thoughts of me effect that.

Okay, this is going to be embarressing, but I don't actually know anyone on here, so I guess it's okay...

Alright,
I'm 14, female
I'm about 5'4
And I weight around 91 pounds...

Please, don't judge, just give me your honest opinions...

Answer 1

If you are happy about your weight then it does not matter what other people think. You should have a fitness test done to see if you are healthy.

Answer 2

Well, at 5'4" 91 pounds is too light... according to the weight charts. But to give you an opinion of whether there could be a REAL issue with your weight at your height and age I'd have to know more, and see you. Are you slim or large boned? Are you thin just because of a high metabolism?

If you starve yourself to to stay that weight then THAT would be VERY bad, but at 14 being skinny is no crime. So long as you know you are skinny and have a healthy image of your own body.

What worries me about your question, actually, is your comment that you are getting mixed messages about your weight. We put sooooo much emphasis on a woman and her body in this society, that its almost criminal.

In the final analysis, if you are really concerned that your weight is a problem, I would go to your family doctors and let THEM tell you if your weight is an issue - and suggest some solutions - rather than relying on people such as myself on here.

Answer 3

First of all, you have two kids with the guy. Straying because you are sexually impulsive is not an option. Your relationship is no longer about just you and him you have kids so think of that when you are tempted to blow some tatted up scumbag. He is still into you. As guys we get lazy. We want to blow a load but don't want to put all the extra effort it takes to satisfy a woman we've been with hundreds of times. Pulling your wire in front of the computer is quick and easy. Maybe tell him that giving you a quick and easy humping now and again is acceptable as long as he mixes in the odd long session to help you out.

Answer 4

For 14 years old, 91 pounds is very average. If anything, you're a little on the light side.

Answer 5

I'd say that sounds just about right for your age ... I'm assuming you're healthy ... but having said that it does depend on a whole range of things like your body shape for instance ... I mean ... if like 60 of those 91lbs is in your toosh ..then you got a problem ...lol
You'll fluctuate like crazy over the next few years it all depends on your mental approach, disipline in what foods you eat and your metabolism ... I'm sure you'll be just fine :)

Answer 6

there is no way you are overweight.
what really matters is not what you see on the scale but how much muscle and body fat you have (females should have under 25% body fat). You can look thin/slender and weight a lot more than anybody could guess if you have a lot of muscle (which weights more than fat)
So -love your body and work out.

Answer 7

Your 14 for christ sake! Why are you worring so much about it? You haven't even had time to fill in yet. 5'4 91lbs, is to thin if you must know. So don't worry about having to throw up any meals. You can feel free to eat what you want, as much as you want at that weight. STOP WORRYING!!!

Answer 8

I think if you eat a normal diet, you are fine. If you are dieting, I think you should stop and try and put on 10-15 pounds.

Answer 9

I'm 5'5" and my ideal weight is abt 140-150........but, I'm a lot curvier. That being said.......It sounds like you need to gain about 20-25lbs. But I'm no doctor.

Answer 10

it's a bit small, but there isn't anything wrong with that. Perhaps it would be healthy to try not to think about your weight and what other people think of it as well...