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Im 19, he's 24. We are both very mature for our ages. Ive always maintained that the difference doesnt bother me, what dies bother me is that it doesnt bother him. Im not sure if that makes sense but if you can make sense of what im trying to say, do u think its possible that i actually feel this way or do u think the age thing is a big deal?

2007-11-28 19:17:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

9 answers

It's not like you are jail bait. So what is it that you want him to be concerned about?

Once everybody in the relationship is legal, the numbers of the ages don't matter nearly as much as maturity level and stage of life. Like, someone who is at the stage of life to want to focus on starting a career and having fun on weekends and evenings but in few years will want to settle down and have a family, probably won't do well in a relationship with someone who wants to have that family right now - and won't be any happier with someone who already had kids and is looking forward to retiring and traveling in an RV in a few years. If you are both in the same stage of life, and can reasonably expect to change stages at similar times, then this guy could easily be your long-haul guy.

2007-11-28 19:51:18 · answer #1 · answered by Windi Lea 7 · 0 0

As long as you are both mature adults there should be no problem. Now if you were 11 and 17 obviously this would not be ok but I think there comes a point where age shouldn't matter anymore.

2016-05-26 07:21:09 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0 0

If you have a problem with him NOT having a problem with the age difference then I think you DO have a problem with the age difference but don't want to admit it and are trying to put the blame of a failed relationship on someone else's shoulders. If you keep having a problem with him NOT having a problem the relationship ultimately wont work out. You have to get over the fact that the age difference doesn't matter to him (or does to you) if you want it to work, and either way, if you don't like him enough then don't even try to.

2007-11-28 19:24:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

The question you should be asking yourself is are you in love or even like this person to look past other factors.

My sister is in love with someone who is 29 an she is 23 years old. The fact of the matter is that he is everything she has always wanted. He fits into our family better than any guy she has ever brought home. He completes everything that she isnt.

So don't ask whether it bothers you. Ask yourself if you love or like thos man enough to look past it. If you don't than it obviously isn't anything too special and you should find better things to consume your time.

2007-11-28 19:25:25 · answer #4 · answered by Kelly D 1 · 0 0

It probably seems like a big deal now but when you're 22 and he's 27, it will be no deal at all. Does he go out and drink with his friends and you can't go; if so, that might be the real issue.

2007-11-28 19:22:27 · answer #5 · answered by Precious 7 · 0 0

5 years isnt a big deal at all

2007-11-28 19:23:17 · answer #6 · answered by lovely 2 · 0 0

ur age dif is not a prob at all. u can see old people marrying young men or women. does it make any sense.

2007-11-28 19:21:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

If it bothers you, then it's a problem, talk to him about it. He'll give the best answer.

2007-11-28 19:24:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

i totally get your question but i have no idea...i have moments like that too where it doesnt bother you but you think it should bother him. haha...don't know what to say....just live it out i guess.

2007-11-28 19:21:44 · answer #9 · answered by heretohelp 2 · 0 0

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