a friend that is a female? him living with her and thier kids?
2007-11-28 19:05:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Boy, I'd stay as far away from that situation as possible. They have a good chance of fooling around at some point, fyi. Plus you have to deal with all the garbage/drama that comes along with the kids -so lame...good luck-no, I wouldn't trust him, no way...Very questionable-are they just friends or have they ever been intimate in the past? Need more details...
P.S. Please answer my question I just posted.
Thanks in advance if you decide to help me out.
2007-11-28 19:12:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is living with his friend and their kids, something is definitely wrong. If you meant to say that you and he are living together with your children and he still has this friend, then it depends on how he treats this friend. Does she spend time with the both of you, or does he see her alone? Do you see any sparks in either's eyes when they are together? How long have they been friends.? What does she look like? Is she too dependent on him?
Generally a woman has an intuition when she is being played. There are usually red flags. If you are seeing red flags, don't ignore them. If it looks like a lemon, and tastes like a lemon. It is a lemon.
2007-11-29 03:15:21 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it is, there is no limitations on gender when it comes to friends. If he had this friend before the gf more then likely there is not going to ever be a physical relationship because they are well established as friends. If he made this friend after there might be reason for worries. But it happens
2007-11-29 03:10:40 · answer #3 · answered by Jedday 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the circumstance.
When you say 'their kids' you mean his and her kids?
So that would make her his ex-something?
I would meet the friend and find out if her version of the story matches his version of the story.
And find out who the father is of the kids.
And is this living situation a temporary or mostly permanent living situation?
Once you have the whole picture, then see how you feel about it. :)
2007-11-29 03:11:53 · answer #4 · answered by Answerer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no and if they r friends she should understand ,,he needs to know how u feel tell him its not the friendship because u r willing to understand frienship but not living together
2007-11-29 03:13:01 · answer #5 · answered by Psychologist In The House 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's nothing but a user and you'll be number two!! Get rid of this guy!!
2007-11-29 03:34:46 · answer #6 · answered by mikk 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure is, so long as they are not going to be sexual when other people are in the picture.
2007-11-29 03:23:19 · answer #7 · answered by andrehansel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, because it will eventually cause problems for him with his wife and so on, jealousy, hate, suspicion
2007-11-29 03:10:42 · answer #8 · answered by D3ATHSYTH3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
only if thats the relationship he's in.
or it's o.k. if you like being a sucker !
2007-11-29 03:17:12 · answer #9 · answered by chuichupachichi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I woulsd not think that is right
2007-11-29 03:12:27 · answer #10 · answered by colbydog43 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋