Just to give you a better picture, we're both 16. I was always good friends with her. But I always felt like I had to hide the fact that I drink or smoke pot or anything that had to do with that sort of stuff. I always thought she was a good girl, and that she would think differently of me. About a week ago I found out that she drank, and all of the sudden that changed everything. Like that small little fact changed my whole view of her. Now I talk to her every single day online and I tell her everything. And I've never actually told her I loved her (family love folks, nothing weird) until after she told me that. But for some reason I feel uneasy. I don't know if maybe I'm just mad at myself for letting something so small as whether you drink or not affect our relationship for the last few years. Or maybe I'm just so overwhelmed with the transition between distant relative to close friend. Can someone help me with my confusion??
2007-11-28 18:54:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I have talked to her about it. And I know I should be glad and I am, but I'm very mad or uneasy about something and I don't know what. Maybe the sudden affection happened way too fast. I mean, she's the only person i can talk to about some issues except for my best friend.
2007-11-28 19:15:27 · update #1
And I don't want any incest answers. I don't love her like that so stop suggesting it
2007-11-28 19:17:46 · update #2
You are just learning more about your cousin. It is nice to get closer as we get older. There is nothing to feel weird about, unless you have sexual feelings about her. In that case, it would be best to back off before trouble arises.
When my brother got older, and was able to do adult things with me, it made us very close. Prior to that, he was just the nuisance younger brother. I loved him, but was not close to him. Having more in common, I felt a greater sense of love and a special bond between us. That is probably what is happening with you.
2007-11-28 19:03:28 · answer #1 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your worried, because you are borderline incestuous here. It's very easy to cross the line and cause confusion. It's only weird if there is a chemistry.
I'd back off a bit. The last thing you need is doing something that you both will regret later.
You just need to find a new girl to chill with.
2007-11-28 18:58:31 · answer #2 · answered by Kimber 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
What's to be confused about? You guys get along well now, be happy.
2007-11-28 18:58:19 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She can answer it best. Talk to her, that's what friends are for.
2007-11-28 18:58:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
do you like her?
2007-11-28 19:12:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋