Me and my Bf have been together for a while. I dont think he really realizes it But like sometimes when were together at skool he'll just like walk away from me and go talk to another group of girls. He'll like steal their things and hide them then their all over him and stuff....... He does it a lot and has a lot of friends who are girls. I think my and his relationship is pretty serious, but I cant help but feel kinda mad and sad when he flirts with them..... What do i do and do you think its flirting??
2007-11-28 18:33:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that it is flirting. At your age I don't think he would get it if you just spoke to him about it. I reckon you need to do the same with some of the guys and see what his reaction is
2007-11-28 18:37:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is a real bother to you them you must confront him with this issue, let him know that when he is with you it is disrespectful to go off and play with other females like that. Sounds like he is a very playful guy and you might have a hard time getting him to understand were you are coming from but don't let him take you lightly. If he really cares and has respect for you and also has the right maturity level then he will understand, good luck.
2007-11-29 02:52:00 · answer #2 · answered by psychonyx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhh... DUH. If he can't keep his distance from these women then you shouldn't be with this guy. Plus, wasn't he like this and wasn't this the reason you wanted to date him? You got to see through the fog or else you are going to get cheated at. And what are you doing being in a relationship? You should be studying and doing good in school. Because boys, like most girls to men are dream killers. You should go and have fun instead of focusing on a relationship that would most likely have over 95% chance of failure.
2007-11-29 02:47:11 · answer #3 · answered by aftershock 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that maybe he is flirting without realizing it...It happens sometimes to people... Mabye talk to him about it...An important part of being in a relationship is good communication, and if you are pretty serious, then it is a good idea to let him know it is bothering you, cus he might not realize it...You cant blame him for bothering you if you don't let him know that he is...
2007-11-29 02:38:29 · answer #4 · answered by Dawgindepark 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell him how this bothers you. He may view it as harmless fun and may accuse you of being jealous in which case you can tell him that what he may consider harmless to you and others it looks like flirting and you find it disrespectful and if he doesn't get it, put the shoe on the other foot and see if he then can see it from where you stand.
2007-11-29 02:39:45 · answer #5 · answered by Becky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He craves the attention. This is probably part of his personality. Better make a decision as to whether you want that in your life before you make any commitments.
2007-11-29 02:36:45 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like it is but if ure relationship is strong i wouldent worry about it i would beat him at his own game flirt with some guys show him how it feels lol
2007-11-29 02:49:52 · answer #7 · answered by manik 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Player. Period.
2007-11-29 02:44:08 · answer #8 · answered by Shorty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋