sorry about that dude, must be hard
and yes, one girl I dated died in a car crash, my ex has multiple sclerosis (pretty rare being a young girl) and this girl I kinda like has cancer
sometimes life goes like "WTF!!! this isn't happening!!"
but alas, everything happens for a reason, even when we may not know it, like it or understand it
2007-11-28 18:39:08
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answered by Mak_time 3
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Sorry for your losses....
My only brother got into a car accident when he was 18 and is brain-damaged because of it. We take care of him at home. He can't walk or talk. We feed him and change him and shower him. He turned 29 today. :) He's my life.
But, our Creator gives us hope, and we know all of this is only temporary. (Rev. 21:4)
Like the times when Christ resurrected the dead. And the time when he told the paralyzed young man to get up and walk. Can't wait.....
EDIT: Hey, oldwise1. You might be old, but you're certainly not wise. Your situation is worse than all of our's put together. I pity you....
2007-11-29 02:37:03
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answered by aseptic technique 5
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God is real, and He loves you (even if you are the most naughty child in the world, or the most wicked adult). He knows all your weaknesses and struggles, and even if you go wrong (even in a big way) He still loves you. What He does not love is the wrong you have done – but He still loves you. He will never ‘turn His back’ on the person who is sorry and asks for help to be put right again – never! Even if everyone else does, and nobody else understands, He does, and He will never leave you even if you leave Him from time to time.
But the concept of having girls friends is totally wrong and not at all good for a healthy society. That is God said in His Glorious Book:
24: 31. Say to the believing men that they restrain their looks and guard their private parts. That is purer for them. Surely, ALLAH is Well-Aware of what they do.
24: 32. And say to the believing women that they restrain their looks and guard their private parts, and that they display not their beauty or their embellishment except that which is apparent thereof, and that they draw their head-coverings over their bosoms, and that they display not their beauty or their embellishment save to their husbands, or to their fathers, or the fathers of their husbands, or their sons, or the sons of their husbands, or their brothers or the sons of their brothers, or the sons of their sisters, or women who are their companions, or those that their right hands possess, or such of male attendants as have no desire for women, or young children who have not yet attained knowledge of the hidden parts of women. And that they strike not their feet so that what they hide of their ornaments may become known. And turn ye to ALLAH all together, O believers, that you may prosper.
24: 22. O ye who believe ! Follow not the footsteps of Satan, and whoso follows the footsteps of satan should know that he, surely, enjoins indecency and manifest evil. And but for the grace of ALLAH and HIS mercy upon you, not one of you would ever be pure; but ALLAH purifies whom HE pleases. And ALLAH is All-Hearing, All-Knowing.
24: 23. And let not persons of wealth and means among you swear that they will not give aught to the kindred and to the needy and to those who have left their homes in the cause of ALLAH. Let them forgive and forbear. Do you not desire that ALLAH should forgive you ? And ALLAH is Most Forgiving, Merciful.
24: 27. Evil things are a characteristic of bad men, and bad men are inclined towards bad things. And good things are a characteristic of good men, and good men are inclined towards good things, these are innocent of all that the calumniators allege. For them is forgiveness and an honourable provision.
24: 28. O ye who believe ! Enter not houses other than your own until you have asked leave and saluted the inmates thereof. That is better for you that you may be heedful.
24: 29. And if you find no one therein, do not enter them until you are given permission. And if it be said to you, `Go Back,' then go back; that is purer for you. And ALLAH knows well what you do.
24: 30. It is not wrong on your part to enter uninhabited houses wherein are your goods. And ALLAH knows what you do openly and what you hide.
All these verses are from the same Chapter, 24. I have put the verses 31 and 32 first, so that u read all the verses.
Quran is a very interesting Book to read about human beings, how to live a peacful and perfect life, science, stories of Prophets and Life After Death.
May Almighty Allah help you (Ameen).
2007-11-29 02:41:30
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answered by Anonymous
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sorry hun, doesn't this open your eyes that everything doesn't happen for a reason? why were their lives ended so soon and so tragically? you say that everything happens for a reason as a means for coping with the traumatic situation.
2007-11-29 02:53:39
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answered by oldwise1 3
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Well, not that. But I do have my testimony written out.
If you want to, you can read it. I promise, it's quite bizarre.
http://blog.360.yahoo.com/blog-7rEUJP4lbqSbntikbR2aAw--?cq=1&p=20
2007-11-29 02:44:00
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answered by Christian Sinner 7
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be all you can be to everyone you meet,you don't know how long a person has,i am very sorry for your lost,the Lord bless you,and keep you strong.
2007-11-29 02:35:03
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answered by parkituse j 5
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No, but you just have to understand that these things happen.
2007-11-29 02:32:53
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answered by Anonymous
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You could use your experiences to get a job writing for the Young and the Restless.
2007-11-29 02:36:06
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answered by Anonymous
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Oh my!! Sorry....
2007-11-29 02:32:29
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answered by Maple Sugar 4
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