Hello, I am engaged. She is very shy. Whenever I am around her, particularly when I touch her hand or say "I love you", i feel aroused. I feel guilty about this, cause, I really Love her from the bottom of my heart. But, I am not sure why I feel like this, when I am alone with her. Is this WRONG? Is my LOVE not correct? Also, how would she feel that time, same like me? I am confused. I have only Pure LOVE for her. But, why I cant stop this when i am with her?
2007-11-28 18:01:19 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
It is normal for a man to be aroused by the woman he loves. You must just control yourself until marriage, if that is your belief. Hopefully, after you are married, you will feel like that for the rest of your lives.
2007-11-28 18:06:21 · answer #1 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Your feelings are fine, in fact, they will help you later on in life, once you're married and want to start a family. Be glad you are that way now, because, if not, you will not make a good husband when the time comes. Better to be aroused now than find out you're a "lady-boy" after you get married, if you catch what I mean.
Just think of this response to being around your future wife as the same reaction a Male stallion would have when shown a beautiful female horse standing out in a green pasture on a lovely spring day.
You both sound so nice, and innocent, I am certain that you both will have many children once you are married.
2007-11-28 18:42:08 · answer #2 · answered by Cid Young 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
LOL! Honey it's called LUST! of course your going to have some lustful feelings toward your intended!! It's NORMAL!!! You love her,and want to spend the rest of your life with her. Your body and mind are anticipating the sexual relationship that will eventually come. Just go with the flow. Tell your fiancee how your feeling. If she's shy.. she may not express her feelings in front of her family. My suggestion is to just be honest with the lady that you love.Tell her how you feel. It's only going to open up the lines of communication. Good Luck.
2007-11-28 23:06:47 · answer #3 · answered by dietitian4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing guilty or wrong about loving someone, if your religion dictates that you have to remain chaste up til your wedding night then just do your best to try and follow that belief. It is totally normal to be turned on by the woman you love, you just need to control yourself for a while longer.
2007-11-28 18:28:42 · answer #4 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If it's the female team it's okay i suppose. But i personally think most female footballers have a serious case of man face. And i have not the patience to watch womens football long enough. Lol at Farrah. I like how she just inculted him and basically cyber punched his bollocks.
2016-04-06 03:12:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its normal and indian girls r lil shy as u r engaged and getting married soon its the excitement of being togatherness which arouse you and i think she must be feeling same lil confused and excited. but no worry it is a typical indian situation when a boy and girl does meet quite often as going out on date like western countries
2007-11-28 18:11:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Is your fiance making you feel this way? Well, it's not bad...you're going to marry her and eventually have relations. That's probably what you're subconsciously thinking about. As long as you don't lose control, you should be ok.
2007-11-28 18:46:02 · answer #7 · answered by ♥☺ bratiskim∞! ☺♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, this is very normal and am sure she feels the same.....u only need to control yourselfs until the d/day if that is what you want
2007-11-28 21:52:14 · answer #8 · answered by June 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this a joke? This has to be a joke.
OK, to answer your question - I certainly HOPE you feel aroused when you're around your fiancee. You're supposed to!
2007-11-28 18:52:52 · answer #9 · answered by Mich 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is a good thing to be physically attracted to the one that you are going to marry. It will definitely help!
2007-11-29 02:08:00 · answer #10 · answered by vaya 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋