Hi, I live with my boyfriend and his parents for years his parents are nice people his mother works his dad doesnt and has been more of a stay at home house husband but doesnt have very good people skills my boyfriend works and goes to school and I work I'm confused for some reason out of the two of us (me and my boyfriend) I'm the only young adult that's being charged half my salary for rent I have no problem with it because I know it cant be easy for his mom to pay the big bills and im glad to help because I love her she has always been there for me more than my mother has for me I will absolutly will not ask and my boyfriend will offer to help pay when the **** hits the roof but she will not take money from him which is sweat but I just dont understand can someone help me understand please and thank you for your time.
2007-11-28 17:27:15 · 3 answers · asked by Magic 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i don't understand why someone would let their son's girlfriend move into their home. and WORSE i can't understand why a young girl would lower herself to live with some guy's parents.
it's nice you help pay and we all need to be responsible and make a contribution; however, get your own place...if you're old enough to live in with a guy, work and pay rent, you are old enough to be on your own.
2007-11-28 17:36:44 · answer #1 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOU ARE NOT HIS WIFE, so don't expect to be treated accordingly.
You are being given very clear signals that you are not wanted. You are selling yourself short by being there. You are supporting the household and providing the services of a wife, without any of the respect or benefits.
The boy needs to buck up and marry you or you need to get out of there. You do not want to make a baby with this "failure to launch" guy... he has to grow up, or else.
You can probably support yourself on what you are making... so tell him to make a decision whether he wants to keep you.
Get ready to move out of there.
Find yourself a nice little garage apartment and find yourself a MAN that you can court and then marry and have kids with.
2007-11-29 01:50:14 · answer #2 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you said your bf works and also goes to school, I don't exactly know what your situation is but maybe the mother won't take his money because he is paying his school fee's, or maybe he helps her around the house somehow mow lawn take rubbish out etc, also I don't know how old you both are but I don't see a problem with you living with your bf's parents, as a parent myself there was a time when one of our sons came back home and his gf moved in with us, I don't see the drama with it, it is up to you and your bf where you live and when you are both ready you will get a place of your own.
2007-11-29 01:51:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋