All right, here's the deal. I am 26. I've been in a 5 year relationship and have been single for 5 months now. I finally said yes to being the girlfriend of a guy who has been trying for three years. And I don't know how to date anymore and I don't know the rules to a brand new relationship. I have two basic questions. Keep in mind that my new guy has a busy career. How often should I go out with this guy (he lives near by)? How often should I call him? I'm ok with talking once a day, is that too much?
2007-11-28 17:24:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, to start out don't push it. Let him call you, and let him decide when you are to go out. At first.
As you get more comfortable with each other, it wouldn't be unacceptable to call him every day just to see how he is doing. But understand that if he has a busy career, then he will need time during the week to himself, so avoid _seeing_ him every single day. He will appreciate the fact that you value his 'him-time'.
2007-11-28 17:28:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well going out, i would say once or twice a week, unless specified by him. once a day isnt bad for talking, but if you get the sense that you are bugging him, lay back until he calls you. if he hasnt called you for some time, give him a call back.
if he is like my bf, he would want to see you everyday even for 5 mins. i have been with him for 6 months and well there has only been 3 or 4 days out of all that time that we didnt see each other, but we did talk on the phone those days. he is the one that told me he wanted to see me everyday. if he says that as well, take advantage.
2007-11-29 01:33:09 · answer #2 · answered by deannaBEARR 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know what you mean.. its hard because also every guy is different. i think that you should call him and once and wait for him to call you and it will go back and forth... Text messages are great to. Just to say hi but i dont think that you should do that to much unless he does it.. Talking once a day is good... i hate when i have to talk to them 8 times a day because i run out of things to say and i hate just sitting on the phone and listening to each other breathe. i think that he should be making most of the moves at first till you guys get into your own cycle.. Good Luck!
2007-11-29 01:29:55 · answer #3 · answered by Broken Blue Eyes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be too much, I'd think it is. Don't try every other day. And don't make a spicific time. Call when you're not busy and ask if there is a times he's not busy.
2007-11-29 01:28:34 · answer #4 · answered by |Marlena_Misery| 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
calling him once every two days that way your in the know but not needy. see about every eight or nine days to you have time to shop for a sexy outfit and relax and live ur life and party
2007-11-29 01:28:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no talking to him once a day is completely perfect.
2007-11-29 01:58:49 · answer #6 · answered by element_o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't let him see that you are in need of him but don't shy away
2007-11-29 01:28:12 · answer #7 · answered by mitch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋