Is 2 hours too long?

Question

OK, me and my girl friend usually go at it for at least 2 hours. 3 weeks later of the relationship, she tells me that she doesn't want sex right then. Is 2 hours too long?

Answer 1

depends on what ur doing for 2 hours..lol

Answer 2

If two hours includes lots of foreplay, then intercourse, and some cuddling afterwards, I'd say that's great! If it's two hours of just intercourse, then I'd say that's a long time.

While that may be OK occasionally (if you both can last that long), it may be the reason she's turning you down more often now. When a relationship is new, we can't seem to get enough of the person we're with, so we tend to do whatever we can to be close to that person (including long sex sessions). Soon that initial newness fades, and while we still want to be with that person, reality sets in. We find we can no longer sacrifice sleep, food, friends, etc...to spend so much time with our new partner. Maybe she is realizing she can no longer withstand frequent two hour sex sessions.

Be patient and assure her that sex doesn't have to be marathon sessions. Hopefully that will solve the problem, or open the lines of communication so she can tell you what the issue is.

Good luck!

Answer 3

Well, are you taking turns during the two hours? It is quite long, but It really depends. If she's doing the work the whole time or if you're doing the work the whole time, it can get boring. But if you guys are having fun and if you're good at what you do and can get her to *** a few times, then it should be fun. However, if you're girl doesn't want sex, do something else like hugging her and kissing her and massaging her to get her into it. Try finishing up within one hour.

Answer 4

If you can last that long you should work as a stud. But I know this a all bullshit

Answer 5

yes i think it is... depends on what you guys are doing though...but from my experience she might just be raw after so long that is starts to hurt... i think you should cut it down alittle bit...