This boy is my boyfriend's 8 year old nephew, his mother has never really cared for him, so my mother-in-law has raised him.. he leaves with her and other 7 people in their house.. every single member of their family, including my mother-in-law yells at him, calls him names like (exactly these words): pig, ******, stupid, p**sy, small penis, and even more hurtful nicks.. but is very weird because she says she loves him, but never pays any attention to him, nobody helps him with school work, instead they tell him he will never be anything good in his future.
Sometimes they do hug him and give him stuff, but to me, it only confuses him more.
His grandma (my mother-in-law), has beaten him with everytihng she can find and has left bruises.. One time his teacher saw them and called the social services people and gave a warning, she was very depresed..
What can I do? How can I do it? Who can I tell? I really don't want anyone in their family to know is me, if i ever report it
2007-11-28 16:53:06 · 6 answers · asked by Bee 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
yeah! but what is the number, can i do it through the internet?? are you sure they won't ever find out is me!!
2007-11-28 17:09:02 · update #1
They are emotionally and physically abusing him. File an anonymous report with social services. Maybe another visit from them will make granny wise up to what she and the rest are doing. It is each of ours duty to report stuff like that. I believe in paddling when necessary but never with objects other than the hand and it should NEVER EVER leave a mark! I suffered all kinds of abuse growing up and I can tell you that emotional abuse is as painful as physical abuse. I remember nights praying the person would just beat me and get it over with instead of an all night screaming and yelling tantrum.
That poor boy is probably just praying someone will rescue him and probably feeling hopeless since childrens services just issued a warning. Get him help and don't stop until someone listens. Best of luck!
2007-11-28 17:06:28 · answer #1 · answered by MISS H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ChildHelp USA National Child Abuse Hotline: 800-4-A-CHILD (422.4453)
2007-11-29 02:08:50 · answer #2 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Report her
2007-11-29 01:24:37 · answer #3 · answered by Q Q Baloch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
report her
2007-11-29 01:05:59 · answer #4 · answered by xoxoxo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can call CPS and be anonymous. Please do. This little boy deserves to feel loved and worthy.
2007-11-29 01:03:52 · answer #5 · answered by munkees81 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to report it.
do it anonymously they don't have to know its you
2007-11-29 01:03:26 · answer #6 · answered by bluesky 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋