I know what makes me fall for a guy in an instant, but what makes guys fall for girls?

Question

like for me, its the smile, or how sweet, or how deep they look into my eyes, or how funny they are, or how good looking they are. and i was wondering, have you ever had that experience when you have thought "that is one kind of a girl, i would love to have her"? what types of things did she do, and why did she attract you? i want lots of different and abstract answers please. i am a late teen, and this for personal enjoyment

Answer 1

Different guys like different types of girls (depending on each person's demographic and cultural background, as well as age). What one guy finds beautiful and attractive may not reflect the same impression on the next.

Personally, when I meet girls at bars or parties, I tend to remember the ones who are friendly, confident, and genuine. Of course, it's a lot easier to remember if they are beautiful, eloquent, and articulate. My reason is that, in reality, each girl will have her own unique twist of flavor/charm which can't really be categorized. Whatever hers is in particular, friendliness and confidence are the qualities that will enhance everything else. That's why I listed them both first.

Drunk skanks who flaunt and flirt all over the places pouring out of their clothes are just not my type (even though most college guys will go after this type). They maybe good eye candies / companions / hookups for the night. They may get guys' attention in that time, but trust me there is nothing beyond that.

Answer 2

Nice question! Here's what happened to me for my second serious relationship.

I was attracted to this girl because:

1. She had this true smile that let you know she was really happy with something
2. She was very hard working yet knew how to have fun
3. My favorite, she was very creative and always made me something each month to celebrate how long we had been together
4. You didn't have to spend lots of money on her, she just want to spend time with me and get to know me more
5. She was genuine, not a hot model with a fake personality but a real person that I could get to know
6. Her beauty made me spin every time I saw her (most importantly her heart though)

Is that what you're looking for?

Answer 3

it was her pretty smile her laugh the way she talks how she makes me feel when i,m around her how she can make me laugh when i,m feeling down the way she brightens up a room when she enters it
it just everything that makes her who she is that attracts me to her

Answer 4

You can't fall for a guy in an instant. If you do, it's not real.