Started dating a woman. She wanted it to progress to steady dating. Then said she really couldn't handle a relationship right now. Then decided she wanted to continue dating, but when I started talking to other women and started showing interest she busted my chops for even thinking about seeing someone else. WTF!!! She's 40 years old and still has no idea what she wants. She just knows she wants me sitting and waiting on her to make up her mind. What the h**l does she want?
Option 1: Dump her like a hot rock.
Option 2: Give her an ultimatum to commit to something.
Your suggestion?
2007-11-28 16:23:42 · 6 answers · asked by ? 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hun, you are way to special of a man to be wasting time on someone that doesn't know what she wants!
Option #2 Give her the ultimatum!!
I would move the heavens if I could find one as special as you are! ((hugs))
:))
2007-11-29 03:02:41 · answer #1 · answered by baby bunny505♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, your not particularly decisive yourself apparently based upon the question lol. However, she is really is far to indecisive for someone of her age. Tell her that you think she needs to find out what she truly wants with someone, and then move on yourself. Let yourself get dragged into her world your going to just take on all her emotional baggage and thats not fair to you.
2007-11-29 00:32:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u dont care much about her, just dump her she's confuse and i bet she can't handle commitments.
2007-11-29 21:33:53 · answer #3 · answered by sweetzy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you care about her than go to option 1
If you dont than go to option 2
also you shouldnt let her use you like that. you should tell her how it makes you feel and how disrespectful it is to you as a person.
2007-11-29 00:28:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on. you can never get back wasted time. it just turns into wasted years.
2007-11-29 16:27:43 · answer #5 · answered by babe with an attitude 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her, she's trying to control you.
2007-11-29 00:27:27 · answer #6 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋