2007-11-28 16:18:05 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hello!
Men and girls alike in any relationship want respect for each others thoughts and feelings.
Along with trust these are the two most important things.
A sense of humor helps and friendship..
God Bless.
Merry Christmas.
2007-11-28 16:23:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Face it, my brothers, girls always go for the best looking guys that they can get. And that is fine with me. I just wish that some one would have told me that 5 years ago. For a while, I was having this illusion that girls want a guys with good personality (being nice to them, funny, confident, good listener, etc...) but my experiences and observations have proved that that is far from being true. All the girls that broke up with me all said I am a gentleman and wish me well. I always open doors, paying for dates/dinners. I brought flowers and chocolates. I don't smoke, don't drink, don't swear and treat everyone with respect. My friends, my teachers, and almost everyone I came in contact with often tell me that I have a good sense of humor. I am not shy, I can strike up a conversation with anyone at any place. I got a degree in computer science, and am getting my master in business. I am a chess champion nation and state wide (I don't tell the girls I date about this since I don't want to be cocky). I don't have six packs but I can skate, swim and play hockey up until 1 in the morning. I have confident in myself and in everything I do. So with all that said, why did I get dumped? It's simple: I DID NOT HAVE THE LOOK. I am physically fit, but only 5'8 tall. My face is plain as white paper and I did not spend much time on my hair. I did not spend much time shopping for clothes/shoes either. Since my last time got dumped I have it figured out. I pay more attention to my hair cut. I consult with my friends before I go shopping and sometimes, even take them with me. I start to wear different cologne for different days and occasion. Whitening my teeth and keep them as clean as possible. And boys, what a difference it makes. Girls now strike a conversation with me first (yep, I could not believe it). Not just any girls, I am talking about the 8s, 9s, and 10s who probably would walk by the "old" me without realizing I was there. Again, I don't want to sound cocky, but I am dating 3 different girls right now (I am kind of tired, so I may cut it down to 2). Deep down inside, I am still me with the same personality. But the new appearance has give me a chance to show it. Call me shallow or whatever you want, but look is the most important thing to girls. No matter how good an item is, you cannot sell it without a good packaging.
2007-12-01 15:49:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I truly believe most women are searching for three things in life. Love, happiness and honesty.
Now realize that she doesnt neccesarily have to find that in a man or even a human-being. Friendships and pets also can fulfill these expectations. However when a man fills it, it is particularly special.
I know that there are people, even professionals that say that friendships within a relationship is a bad thing, but I disagree. Everything is built upon the foundation of friendship.
Build your friendships, you'll be surprised with what comes around the corner. Trust me.
2007-11-28 16:25:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the girl and the time.
But most are so full of emotion they are looking for love even when they say they are not.
2007-11-28 16:21:54 · answer #4 · answered by Just ME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on the girl i suppose. Personally I'm looking for love and respect.
2007-11-28 16:20:38 · answer #5 · answered by jo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls look for an honest relationship, with as many benefits as possible... respect is important, and i don't think we would date people without looking for love, otherwise we would just jump in bed with every hot dude out there, and we don't. we give those with a real personallity a chance!
2007-11-28 16:21:45 · answer #6 · answered by roundtowngirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha-ha we're all confused... Each one is different so it's best to take things slow untill you can try to figure out what side of the boat you need to sit her. At some point one of you will need to bring it up. Just be honest so no one gets disapointed.
2007-11-28 16:24:22 · answer #7 · answered by Dowjones 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends on the girl.
not everyone is looking for love or marriage, and not every one is looking for a fling.
2007-11-28 16:20:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sincerity.
2007-11-28 16:19:44 · answer #9 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends. Everyone wants different things in different periods of time in their life.
2007-11-28 16:22:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋