what do i do about my little brother?

Question

ok im 12 and my litte brother is 6. I flat out am going to tell you i think i hate him. im not tryin to be rude but he is a perfert and ive told my parents and they just say he was probably just trying to cuddle but i know he wasnt because he always starts with tryin to get the covers off me in the morning when im asleep without wakin me up. hes touched my breasts and tryed to gt up under my shirt but i always wake up and i yell get out now and he just tries to make up an escuse but he knows i know what hes up to because ive confronted him before and im not shure what to do about it to make it stop and not only that but hes gross. whene he goes to the bathroom and goes #2 if he gets any on his hands whene he wipes he rubes it of on the side of the counter and my parents know about that too but all theve done is spanked his but the first two times but now they wont even listen to me they think im just triyn to get him in trouble and we dont get along so please tell me what i hould do

Answer 1

Yeah....you need to slap the crap out of him when he touches you like that. I have a 7 and 6 year old boys. By that age they know what they are doing. You need to threaten him to even call the police. Tell him that this is not right to touch you like that. You need to slap the crap out of him! You need to stop this. Just remember that if you don't stop him yourself he will just keep doin it.-------I have worked with pre kinder kids for the past few years.....and believe me they know that is not acceptable. Now I think is your parents fault they are not taking this issue seriously. If they don't help....talk to your school counselor.....and see if they don't listen to her! girl...please take care of this!!

Answer 2

That is a tough situation. He is old enough to not behave that way. I was 16 when my brother was born and we were very close, snuggled all the time, and still do, he is 10 now. But, nothing like that ever happened. My kids would do that as they got a little older, like my 14 month old will do his best to get some snack time (he is still nursing). If you can, get a lock on the door, or pile stuff in front of it so he can't sneak in. When he does come in your room, just get up and get ready for the day. Explain to him that his behavior makes you uncomfortable and that you would like to have some privacy. Try hard not to get mad, just state it as a fact. As I mentioned my brother is 10, I have another that is 7, and my daughters and nieces are 7, 5, 4, & 3. Because the boys and girls are so close in age and their is natural curiosity we have a rule, Boys can see Boys, and Girls can see Girls! Teach him that.
As far as the bathroom goes, He might be trying to get attention. So do whatever it takes to ignore the situation. I keep flushable wipes and Clorox wipes handy. The wipes make it easier for kids to wipe their bums, and the Clorox wipes make it easier for me to clean up the mess when they don't do so well. I know it's gross, but just wipe up with a Clorox wipe if you have to share a bathroom with him, or if you can, use a different bathroom, set up a vanity in your room to do your hair, etc.
As for your parents, your description of them seems as though they have given up, which isn't good or fair for either you or your brother. Do what you can to prove to them you need their help, you aren't just being a tattle tale, hopefully things will improve.

Answer 3

I honestly don't think that at the age of 6 he has any interest in sexual things. Let alone the fact that he probably doesn't even understand the word pervert. just try to be patient even though I understand it must be tough. Make your parents understand whats going on. I mean really sit down with them and make them listen to you. Tell them just what you've said on here. And if they fail to confront the situation like responsible parents, then tell them your next step will be involving a school counselor. Another thing to keep in mind is maybe your brother has witnessed this type of behavior elsewhere. I don't think talking to a counselor at school would be such a bad idea if your parents won't handle it.

Answer 4

What you have listed is no reason to HATE a child. He's still very, very young, and I think you're a bit young to understand that, too. Your little brother is very curious. You look a lot different than he does, and he doesn't know why, that could explain him touching you and looking. He doesn't mean any harm. He's not old enough to understand. As for the bathroom incident, it sounds like he doesn't know any better. He needs some more proper potty training. Boys tend to develop a bit slower than girls, so perhaps he needs to be taught the basics.


Why don't you be a good big sister and teach him the dos and don'ts of the bathroom? Speak to him slowly and quietly, using clear, simple words and tell him what he does is wrong. I know your first reaction is to scream, "Ew! Gross! You disgusting little brat!" But that doesn't help anyone.

You really need to open your eyes and realize he is still a child. He was barely a baby just three years ago.

Next time he tries to climb into bed with you, lift up your blanket and offer him to cuddle with you. Be calm and kind with him. Teach by example. Don't be a hideous big sister.

Answer 5

Hello elizabeth w.!
If your parents won't listen I would go talk with an adult who you trust,maybe an auntie or grandmother.
Or a head mistress at your school.
This behavior needs to be checked now if this is the case because it will eventually become more serious.

I will be praying for your situation John 3:16.
Take care!.

Answer 6

This is very disturbing and you need to try to talk to your parents about it again. At 6, he's still too young to truly understand what's going on. Is there any way he could have been abused by anyone? I think he needs professional help. If your parents won't do anything, can you talk to an aunt or uncle, grandparent? You need to talk to an adult you trust who isn't going to make excuses for your brother.

Answer 7

i think if you wake up and he has anything at your underclothing you should break his finger.
i know this sounds hard but if it where anyone else your parents would be proud you are defending your self.
you could ask your mom what should you do if a boy tries to touch you( she may think you are talking about school)
than when you break his hand she will see you asked for help first.
also sleep with your door locked.
if he is doing thing this now
what will he do at 10, 12, 16?

Answer 8

smearing his feces (his #2) around is a sign that he is maybe experiencing mental, psychological abnormalities. the fact that your parents are simply spanking him is not enough and obviously not working. i think you're old enough to tell your parents that they should have him see a child psychologist or psychiatrist, because he is acting out in sick and abnormal ways. when he tries to touch you, be consistent in reprimanding (punishing) him, and be firm about it. never let him get away with it. if your door has a lock on it, lock it when you go to bed. it's better for your parents to own up that something is not quite right than to have a deeply disturbed adolescent on their hands later in life, not knowing what he will be capable of

Answer 9

whoa

You need to take chalk and draw a line

Boundaries!

Let your parents know your serious,,about him peeking, and the bathroom thing is just a hygiene issue for the whole family and must be addressed asap.

you guys and your bro could get very sick from this

Answer 10

first off wow then second a good way to prove this to ur parents leave this window open on like ur family computer but make it seem llike an accident then later when ur parnets go to the computer they see ur really having problems about him and whammm they fix it