Girls what would you do if your guy:
Could only manage a semi erected penis, so basically he couldn't get it solid like previous partners.
Couldn't hold out for more than say 2 minutes every time before cumin, even if it was the second time of the night.
And wasn't very big either, although I no that doesn't matter. But what with the other problems I've mentioned and that added to it, what would you do?
Keeping in mind you have only just started dating, he really likes you too.
2007-11-28 12:43:48 · 9 answers · asked by Bonnie B 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Also the guy being in his 30s so its not like his young and inexperienced.
I dated someone like that and I had to say I left him, I loved sex back then and it was very important to me. Just wondering what you girls would of done.
Also I dont enjoy oral so he couldnt make up for it that way.
2007-11-28 12:45:36 · update #1
Well if he was great in all other areas ( self confident, honest, hardworking, nice, good looking faithful etc) I would have stayed I guess. But all that you mentioned its likely to bring confidence problems which j brings trusts issues, and just gives you an annoying relationship, so I would have left. too
2007-11-28 12:53:12 · answer #1 · answered by Amy G 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hes probably nervous, most penis probs are physcological, have you tried giving him a hand job untill he stands to attention, viagra may be the answer untill he gains confidence with you, then he should be able to stand errect without it, male strippers tie a piece of cotton around the base of the shaft when in a state to impress, if you can get him rigid by hand put an elastic band around the base, he will also last longer this way to as he wont be able to squirt his baby batter whilst the band is on
2007-11-28 20:57:48 · answer #2 · answered by kevin friend 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sorry but i think your a little selfish bordering on the cruel side,he may just feel that your expectations are so high that hes worrying and cant manage,ill bet you tell him about it too which can only make him go from bad to worse,if you love him you will help him,if you just want an erect penis move on!
2007-11-29 01:31:28 · answer #3 · answered by fozz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should seek medical advice.
To be honest I would be very disappointed, and if he wasn't prepared to try his hardest to improve the problem then I would ditch him.
I guess it's a test of how much you like him as to whether you want to stick with him while he tries to sort it, and whether he is willing to get the help.
2007-11-28 20:55:27 · answer #4 · answered by Robin 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He obviously has some sexual disfunction problems - he needs to see a sex therapist.
If I were you, I'd dump him. He will only be a frustration to you and since you've only just started dating him it's best to dump him now rather than later. His sexual problems are his problem - don't make them yours.
2007-11-28 20:50:58 · answer #5 · answered by mollyflan 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
maybe hes w4nking to much in the day times
2007-11-28 20:48:30 · answer #6 · answered by J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Run like the wind'
2007-11-28 20:53:31 · answer #7 · answered by ~~ANGEL45SWEETY~~ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tug his balls this will stop it falling, buy Viagra, tell him to visit doctors aswel
2007-11-28 20:48:48 · answer #8 · answered by EMILY S 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
URGH such a turn off. tell him to **** himself
2007-11-28 23:25:10 · answer #9 · answered by nown 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋