i'm not sure..
2007-11-28 11:59:57 · 37 answers · asked by Miss Green 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lol thanks for all the uplifting and great answers! some of them were really good and made me think deeper and i realized what a stupido and worry wart i was being haha! *^^* i will drive the boyfriend thought out of my mind and start living more happier and brighter! ahahaha <3 and a lot of guys like me but NONE of them are my type. i guess the right guy will come along soon! :D
2007-11-28 15:11:47 · update #1
Yes!
My Mom wouldn't let me date until I was 16. Just enjoy your youth while you have it. You'll be surprised how quickly it slips through your fingers.
Boys aren't everything. Focus on the important things like school. Also, you should remember to honor your parents. Afterall, you would be nothing without them. I don't know why I put that in there. I just kinda thought you needed to hear that last part. :-)
2007-11-28 12:06:27 · answer #1 · answered by Frank F 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
You're very young, so yes, it's "normal." I've always thought I was weird b/c I didn't have lots of boyfriends, but that all eventually changed. The older you get, the more guys will open up to you.
Right now, they're just really young. Give yourself time. You're not 80. You're only 12. You have all the time in the world. And I promise having a boyfriend isn't everything.
2007-11-28 12:08:12 · answer #2 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very normal! I didn't have my first serious relationship until I was 16. But I know it can be hard when people are "going out" in the 4th grade lol. The older you are the more meaningful it will be so don't worry :)
2007-11-28 12:08:00 · answer #3 · answered by chlorination 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pressure from your friends (or peers if you wish) might tend to make you feel that way. To me there is nothing abnormal about that fact. Just be you and look at yourself through your eyes rather than through the reflection of the eyes of others. Try and remain confident in yourself and make learning and your education your main priority. There will be plenty of times for boys, Trust your inner-self and let your conscious help guide you in making decisions. also trust the wisdom of your parents.
2007-11-28 12:14:51 · answer #4 · answered by Robere 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what?!?! I don't know where you are living girl but pairing up at such a young age (under 13?), is very ,very rare to my experience. There is no point to a relationship at that age. At the ae of thirteen I still felt pretty much like a kid, I wudn't want a single girl to tie me down (and have all my friends teasing me), heck I was immature and proud of it. that stuff is for later, girl
2007-11-28 12:13:12 · answer #5 · answered by Jerry 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's normal sweetie! Actually, it's normal to never have had a boyfriend by the age of 16 or 17.
Don't worry...there's no rush, believe me. You have sooo much ahead of you!
2007-11-28 12:08:12 · answer #6 · answered by mrazle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It abnormal TO have a boyfriend at 13. Slow down honey, you have lot's and lot's of time. Plenty of fish in the sea and good things come to those who wait.
2007-11-28 12:11:57 · answer #7 · answered by Jim C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm almost 15 and my parents rule is that there's no dating for me untill i'm 16. And i've eventually learned to accept it. Now that i'm in high school, i see lots of my friends dating and how stressful it is! I wouldn't want to have to deal with that on top of school and such. Thirteen is a great age, enjoy it while it lasts and just have fun with friends!!! You've got your whole life ahead of you, you've got time. :D
2007-11-28 12:11:23 · answer #8 · answered by Amy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, I was really choosy, no one was ever what I wanted so it took me until I was 16 to find someone that was worth it... and he's wonderful, everything I want and I don't regret any of those years alone - they only mean that the guy I love can be my "first" for a lot of things... including this Christmas! the first time I have a boyfriend to buy a gift for =]
it'll be worth it in the end if you hold out for someone worthy of you.
2007-11-28 12:06:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
don't worry! It is normal! These days girls start to date far to early! They don't even know what dating means! I think you should definitely wait with dating at least until high school, when you are older and you know more about these things!! xoxo
2007-11-28 12:13:33 · answer #10 · answered by Sisi Coke 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋