Well, theres these three girls at my school and i used to like one... she was sorta friends with me at first but then i went a little over-the-top and blew it... eventually they started calling me a stalker... well one day they sed it and it just flipped a switch in my mind that had never been... FliPPed... well i went balisticand ruined my life... i sed "im gonna kill you!" and other homo stuff like that and i EVEN drew a picture of her burning in h-edubble hockey sticks... and well it was about three months ago and now they ALL hate me more than ever... well actually one HAS forgaven (forgaven???) me and weve moved on but like i know this isnt really somethin there just gonna forgive me right off the back for... "Im gonna Kill you" ... 5 sec. l8r... "Ur fergavin" (ha forgaven again... how DO u say it???) yea tht wouldnt happen i just... idk can u try and help me to get them to know im sorry and like i really mean it??? and like i just wanna be friends again... ... :'(
2007-11-28 11:58:16 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They probably aren't as worried about it as you are, but you went a bit nuts there for a minute, didn't you? It's worth it to talk with a school counsellor about why something that trivial would set you off so strongly. Knowing "why" will protect you against a worse outburst & outcome on some future date.(You were severely embarrassed, weren't you? THAT'S what caused all of that in the first place, right? Here's the big secret:EVERY teen has their screwed up moment in the spotlight that makes them want to dry up and blow away. They're usually not as bad as you'll make them out to be, other folks are usually too busy worrying about their turn in the light to worry about yours; everyone will get a turn without fail; and you'll remember it for the rest of your life, but it'll only be traumatic once.) So, after you apologize once, maybe the less you say about this to your friends, the better off you'll be. Good luck.
2007-11-28 12:51:14 · answer #1 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just FYI it's "forgiven".
Don't sweat it too much as we all do and say goofy things in high school and most of our lives come to think of it. In time they'll all forgive you if your nice from now on and don't say something like that again. Apologizing helps too. In time they'll forgive you if they're mature enough.
2007-11-28 12:04:45 · answer #2 · answered by jose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sincerely apologize, forgive and forget it, move on but you really need to learn more about yourself and learn what triggers that anger...and how to control it. Best wishes.
2007-11-28 12:50:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋