There is this kid at my school that is kind of in the possy of kids that think they are so cool and better than everyone else. He is kind of skater and is a big troublemaker in one of my clases. Everyone seems to think he's funny but me.All the "cool" kids are kind to me except him. He tells me i can't wear the clothes i wear because I am not "skater", and I actually do skate! He calls me a ****** and tells me to shut up all the time. He makes fun of me because I havent kissed my girlfriend yet. I dont know how to handle all this. Help please!
2007-11-28 10:18:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Grade-Schooler
Laugh at him...every time he adresses you start laughing like you know something about him. If he get's aggressive then say "Look, grow up and take a look at yourself...if I had a face like yours I'd probably feel insecure too."
Pick on his biggest physical weakness...big nose, crooked teeth, whatever it is...he'll have one, everyone does...everytime he picks on you say "Shut up for God's sake I;m tired of seeing your enormous crooked teeth" or whatever his "ugly bit" is.
If he talks about your girlfriend again, call him a pervert...say, "Why are you so bothered about my sex life? Is it because you dont have one of your own you freak?"
The guy is obviously threatned by you for some reason...you make him feel unsure of himself...he's mean..get meaner.
2007-11-28 10:27:19 · answer #1 · answered by Daisyhill 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to go to your school counselor tomorrow and tell him what you told us.
Most school districts have a zero bullying policy.
You can wear anything you want. So what if you haven't kissed your girl yet...I'm more than betting he has never either!!
Find your self esteem and when he rides you just smirk at him, roll your eyes at his friends as if to say..you hang out with this loser?, shake your head and walk away IF YOU CAN SAFELY
A bully can't bully if it appears it doesn't bother you.
Him calling you a f*g is a serious offense and shouldn't be taken lightly.
2007-11-29 11:13:57 · answer #2 · answered by foxinsox 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably just trying to make fun of you and call you out so he can hid his own insecurities by pointing out your faults.The only way to handle it is to attempt to ignore him but if the bullying gets at all physical back down (unless you can take him) and tell a teacher or parent
2007-11-28 21:54:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A friend doesn't try to hurt or embarass their friends.Does your friend even have a girlfriend,maybe he is jealous?You are showing respect for your girl friend.In all likelihood the last female your cool friend kissed was his mom.Don't worry about him,he is not a friend.Friends say good things about you behindyourback,he is a back stabber.Be true to yourself.
2007-11-28 18:37:08 · answer #4 · answered by gussie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore it. If it dosn't help tell him I SKATE TOO! BESIDES< EVEN IF I DIDN'T, IT'S A FREE CONTURY! Make him get it. If you do all this and it still dosn't work,see the school counciler, or principal. I fal that dosn't work, switch schools. I had the exact same problom.
2007-11-28 22:13:54 · answer #5 · answered by |{enz!e 2 dance 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you could try to fight back and call him a ****** to.
2007-11-29 22:30:09 · answer #6 · answered by mlennon0819 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him.He's just some jerk.He'll leave you alone if you don't listen!
2007-11-28 19:45:53 · answer #7 · answered by xomorgan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok i sooo went throught this for 3 yrs stright....... just ignore him
2007-11-28 22:09:52 · answer #8 · answered by Makayla 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋