My dad has never liked black people.Iv'e found out that I'm attracted to black girls. I'm white.Is this o.k? If she wanted to go out with me how could I tell my dad?
2007-11-28 10:13:40 · 8 answers · asked by mapizrap 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont tell him right away, but when you do, be confident. dont let him criticize your girlfriend, because no one has the right to degrade other races.
2007-11-28 10:17:51 · answer #1 · answered by apple 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
well i would not tell him.. not right away.. if you fall in love with her then you just might have to tell him.. but if your under 18 i would wait until your older.. say over 18.. to tell him..my bf parents.. one is mex and the other white.. their family never accepted the marriage until they had my bf and his twin brother.. his aunt was even in the KKK.. now she is married to a black man and adopted a half mex child.. when she saw her nephews she knew she could not be a racist any more.. people do change. sometimes it takes a baby.. my ex sister inlaw was like that when she saw her first grandson.. a mix black child
2007-11-28 10:26:57 · answer #2 · answered by vis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let your dad's racist outlook on life stop you from being who you are. You don't want to be like him...he is just an old school pitty man that can't get over old ****. Do what you want and if he says something....tell him to f**k off and stop being such a biggit!!!
2007-11-28 10:19:08 · answer #3 · answered by carqueen66 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Prior to telling him ask nim why he doen't like blacks. Listen to him and explain your side. After all I personally been helped and hurt by just about every race there is.
2007-11-28 10:23:01 · answer #4 · answered by Mark B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First question is are you doing this because of your Dad or do you really care for the girl?
If you are doing it to spite your Dad then you are wrong.
If you really care for the girl, then do it and don't worry about your Dad's beliefs.
2007-11-28 10:22:59 · answer #5 · answered by Squat1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your dad is going to have to get ovet it, I mean what have we black people done to him? It is 2007, people should just drop racism and pretend it never existed.
2007-11-28 10:18:20 · answer #6 · answered by Mr. 3.14™ 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Oh i'm sorry.... I really am. He should be able to accept it after a while but I wouldn't tell him at first.
2007-11-28 10:17:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, yea don't tell him at first. What he does not know won't hurt him. So date her and if it gets serious then you should tell him.
2007-11-28 10:19:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋