Im sick of?

Question

Getting ******* rejected.Im a good guy and im not that bad looking yet i always get rejected its getting to the point now where im starting to hate girls and i dont want to be like that.What the hells going on? I always be as nice as i can but they play ******* games and mess around with my feelings.

It upsets me more when i see dickheads that treat there girls like **** yet they still come running back to that guy.

Answer 1

Give me a call ;-)
Honestly I would love a guy like you have described but there aren't that many at Uni- there all after one thing.
I am in a relationship but its kinda long distance at the moment as I encouraged him to go and live where his work was so it would be less stressful. Now I only see him 1 day a week :-( but I would never cheat.
Sorry back to the question.. Maybe the girls u flirt with etc...and these girls are not looking for a relationship ( are they drunk in a bar) All I can say is be more reserved with your feelings and don't give your heart to anyone. Be nice but hold stuff back until you can be sure you can trust her. x x x

Answer 2

Hey i understand where you're coming from. I'm obviously female (my name maybe gives it away) and i'm sick and tired of seeing girls treat guys like **** who don't deserve it. I found out my ex-fiance had recently got re-engaged and he tells me that she treats him so badly. This really pi**es me off big style. I'm single and pretty cool and laid back (just got out of a horrible relationship to cut a long story short) and i'd never treat a guy nastily, yet i'm on my own while all these girls i know are with nice guys, but treat them like crap. Please don't stop being a nice guy - they always come out better in the end, honestly. Just give it time. You're the good person, not them. Don't give up. x :-)

Answer 3

Thats very sad to hear!!!! you sound very much like my daughter,she is a good girl..great looking..would do anything for anyone without moaning and she gets treated by blokes the way you get treated by girls..it,s so sad to watch over and over again.and mess around with her kind nature and her feelings..the way i see it you shounl,nt change for anyone if people can,t accept you the way you are well i,ts ther loss.good luck for your future and all the girls are not the same! you will find someone one day who will love you the way you are

Answer 4

It seems you are too kind, you're the guy girls come to when they want to chat, and relieve their feelings. I would suggest that you be a bit more mysterious, extra funny (woman love funny men) and don't be too eager too please, stay distant for a while when you meet a new girl. And don't let any one use you for the shoulder to cry, don't take that crap anymore, period! Good Luck.

Answer 5

just like you get good guys you also get good girls, same as the ones that play with your hear there in both sex's, its just that when you find the right one keep hold of them as they don't come often.

all the best & dont give up you will find her when the time is right.

Answer 6

will you believe me when i tell you to give it time,and everything will turn out for the best,maybe your just hanging around the wrong girls,change the places you go to meet girls,you will meet someone that is right for you but its like everything else its the waiting and having patience.best of luck

Answer 7

i know exactly what you mean, but thats cos ur probably being too nice, i was too nice, not im a complete utter b***** and my ex wants me back lol its ironic, but i still hurt inside. were only human and just too trusting, please dont give them too much too soon, back off. date them, and dont do the running good luck

Answer 8

I laughed when i read your question coz i feel that all guys are dick heads that play games??? Guess we are always going to blame the opposite sex aren't we?

Answer 9

your problem my dear is this...........youre just too nice!treat them mean and keep them keen.and i know what im talkin about!now stick that in your pipe and smoke it