Is it normal for a man to look at porn everyday, sometims twice a day?

Question

I have been dating a man for about 1 1/2 years.I have recently found out that he is looking at porn everday onhis computer and sometmes twice a day.My first question is, is taht normal? But I have another question. He is 41 and he is looking at pornthat is of girls that areVERY VERY young teens. Is that normal for a man in his 40's to look at that kind of thing? Not that I"mtrying to make up an excuse for him but could it just be that he is trying to be young again. If anyone has an answerto tis PLEASE HELP!! Thanks

I also want to add that I don'thave a problem with him looking atporn sometmes I just dn't know if it's normal for it tobe all the time and also I wat to add that he does't look at the very young teens all te time healso looks atthe adults and that is why I wa wondering if it was a mid life thing ormaybe even a curiousity thing.

Answer 1

I posted on another question that you posted, same question different spot... but I'll comment on another answer on this one. Don't tell him to stop. That'll cause unnecessary conflict. If you want him to stop or slow it down, just do more to him... Learn something like belly dancing and strip for him. Draw his attention to you more is all. Do role playing or what ever fetishes he has. Porn is more of a venting and a tool that men use, take the need for the tool away and the use will follow. But it's normal for men to lust for the younger women, its the tight bodies and all. And some of it is the youth but it's not all the time; depends on the person.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

It's not really normal, but it's not abnormal. I mean, we all fantasize about something, right? Unless it is taking away from you, or he is actually attempting to pick up young, under aged girls, there's no reason to be upset. Unless you just dont like the idea of it. If you don't like it, and you've told him, he should stop for you. I don;t think he's trying to be young again, I think he just likes the idea of a young, "fresh" girl. A lot of guys are into the whole younger girl thing, or being with an "innocent" girl. As for the young teen thing, no matter what the porn says, they're over 18. Unless it;s some illegal thing. No porn company would be stupid enough to make a film with under aged girls, and then put it online. Your boyfriend probably just has a high sex drive. There's nothing wrong with it, unless it bothers you and he doesnt care. Whoever says hes sick for looking at young teens, should grow up. I mean, people fantasize. It doesnt always mean that they would do it if they had the chance. A fantasy is just that, a FANTASY. So don't worry so much. :)

Answer 4

When you say very very young teens, you mean like 13? or 18+? It's pretty normal for a guy to look at porn, if he's got nothing else going on, then yes, daily is normal. If he stops what he's doing and makes it a point to get "porn time" in each day then it's controlling him, which would make it a little overboard. As far as the age thing, looking at minors is illegal, but I have talked to a lot of guys who candidly admit that "young" girls are sexually attractive, and by young I'm talking about 16, 17, 18 ish. But these guys would never engage in a sexual act, or seek underage porn. 18 is not a magic number, all law aside, I've met attractive 16 year old girls who were much more mature than most 18-19 year olds. I personally wouldn't get involved with one (again, all law's aside) because I just don't think I have much in common with a girl that young. I dunno. If they're minors, remind him it's illegal, and show him episodes of "To catch a predator"

Answer 5

yeah it is normal. and i bet you are exaggerating about the age, very young teens or very young people compared to you, that happen to be teenagers(18+). it is normal, and all you haters are probably looking at something like that right now as i am typing this. if not, don't tell me or even worse, yourself, you never have. it might be taboo, but i wouldn't consider it a big problem, unless in fact it is child pornography. then i would listen to these other people. and i would have clarified the age of these people on the computer before mentioning this story for all these people to crucify him, even though it will not reach or effect him in any way. do you know right from wrong? so what is the real motive behind this question? i don't even want to think about it. sorry for the rant, but i thought this was a weird question. i think every guy does that in some form from time to time, and girls too.
edit-and by saying everyone has done it, i didn't mean look at pictures on-line, i meant has fantasized, or done it with themselves

Answer 6

I don't know very many men that wouldn't do it given a chance. Almost all I have ever met like to look at it. There may be 1 out of a hundred that wouldn't. But for the most part men like to look at dirty movies. And the very very young teens he looks at are either breaking the law or 18 year olds pretending to be a very very young teens. Most likely it is 18 year olds pretending to be real young. I wouldn't worry about it a lot. I don't consider this cheating. It is just fantasy and looking. It isn't the best thing for a relationship though because it does sort of warp the mind if they look at it too much.

Answer 7

While it is normal for a guy to look at porn from time to time, everyday or twice a day usually means that he's either "Aroused" or that he's just looking for the rush. And it is normal to look at porn of girls that are young, they're in their prime so it's usually the best kind. Thats just an obsevation.

Answer 8

if he is looking at porn of very very young teens call the police the youngest should be old teens as in 18+ as for the amount sounds like he might also have a sexual addiction. How is your guy's sex life? does he seem disinterested? or he could just be a perv..

Answer 9

Well I am 17 and I think I can help you here. There are many types of people out there, the kind that look at women in their 20's, and the kind that look at girls in their teens. Your guy just happens to be the latter of the two. It isnt normal, and it may cause problems in your relationship and in his life later on. He needs to snap out of it and quickly, before he goes to jail.

Answer 10

no its not normal at all im 17 and i maybe watch it once a month, its normal that hes watching people in their 20's- as most pornstars have a "young appeal" and etc. but if their under 18 its a fellony and he can be thrown in jail if he is caught with it on his PC or watching it. Hope this helps...you may have to talk to him about it. Good luck!