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A while back during the summer, i had this thing with this girl. I liked her and she liked me and we both knew it but never really talked about it, we had kissed and stuff a couple times but that was it. then last week i told her that i wanted to be "more than a friend" and she was saying that she just wants to be really good friends. i had kind of stopped thinking about her but now i really like her and finally worked up the guts to tell her. Is it too late? What can i do to get her back?

2007-11-28 10:04:16 · 27 answers · asked by Chris 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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I've learned that when it comes to feelings you never know whens the right time. You never want to rush into something before you're ready but then when you're ready that person may not be. All you can do is have patience, believe me it's hard to do, but either they'll realize how great you are or it wasn't meant to be. Look at me trying to give advice. Just tell her exactly how you feel, don't come on too strong though it might run her off.

2007-11-28 10:18:59 · answer #1 · answered by tc22 3 · 0 0

yeah. i cant speak for everybody, but my theory is if you don't make the move within a short period of time (about a month at max), then the relationship enters into friend mode and the interest for it to be something more is no longer there. If you are really okay with being just her friend, then be her friend. Enjoy being friends with her and having good times with her and you never know, something can develop over that. But if you only want to be her friend in hopes that you can win her back, please don't. Speaking from a girl's point of view, I don't think that's very sincere or fair.

2007-11-28 10:10:31 · answer #2 · answered by Lunachit 6 · 1 0

I think that it is not too late. If you really like her, then you should let her know how you feel instead of just saying you want to be more than friends. If she still says she just wants to be friends, then maybe it is because she isn't ready to be your girlfriend and she just needs a little more time. And, if she really does like you then in time, she will be ready and you can ask her then if she would like to be your girlfriend. Good luck!

2007-11-28 10:11:27 · answer #3 · answered by layanne1 4 · 0 0

You never HAD her if you just kissed a couple of times.

Friends often turn into more. Just enjoy being with her, talking to her, sharing your days with her. The intimacy will eventually come. If not, you have a really good friend that you actually like.

2007-11-28 10:08:54 · answer #4 · answered by otimijanel7 1 · 1 1

Just give her some time to think about everythin. I mean you guys have already dated once before. I think. But anyways, just give her some time. Wait about 2 weeks or more and then ask her again. Good luck.

2007-11-28 10:13:02 · answer #5 · answered by criswellmary 3 · 1 0

First, get the definition of "really good friends" from her. It may be what you're looking for, or at least gives you the ability to hang around until she changes her mind.

It may be too late, but just be honest with her about your feelings. She says no, then just remain friends, your chance may come again.

2007-11-28 10:08:43 · answer #6 · answered by MJ 32001 3 · 1 1

Send her roses to work, or her house, write her a love letter, send her a text to meet you at a romantic restaurant and raise the subject again. Woman love Romance they really really do, and if you keep persisting she will give in, good luck really! Go for it!!!

2007-11-28 10:10:25 · answer #7 · answered by wendyegypt 2 · 1 0

Surprise her with some flowers and tell her how you feel. Ask her to just give you a chance and prove that you are a good guy

2007-11-28 10:07:46 · answer #8 · answered by solelone 3 · 1 1

Sounds like you told her, and she gave you her answer, I'm sure not much has changed since last week. If you keep pestering her you'll scare her off. Just be her friend.

2007-11-28 10:08:12 · answer #9 · answered by Excellante 3 · 1 1

its never too late, just be a good friend to her for now and try again after you are even more intimate.

2007-11-28 10:07:16 · answer #10 · answered by pplperson 2 · 1 1

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