should i let him go?

Question

i hurt him so much, even when i'm not trying. he hurts me too sometimes. he makes me feel neglected and that he doesnt care for me. he keeps telling me that he is here for me but whenever i dont feel it, i end up doing something like talking to other guys (just talking). i know i seek attention when he doesnt give it to me. i do love him and i want to make things work but everytime something like this happens, i know how much i am hurting him. its so hard to let go because we've been together for so long and i love him dearly. should i let him go?

i really dont make it a habit of talkign to other guys tho. like this time, this guy sent me a text message and i stupidly responded to it and let it go on for a few messages.

it's not just him tho. i've hurt him a lot along the way. i am willing to change for him but i dont know if he is gonna give me another chance. I hope and pray he does!

it's over guys! thanks anyway...he let me go!

Answer 1

I think you guys should talk to each other, and say exactly what you're feeling.
Make sure he understands though. Explain to him how it makes you feel when the treats you that way. Tell him how much you love him.

Answer 2

I think that you two should talk about where your relationship stands and where the two of you want it to go. Also you both need to address what you need from each other to be happy and compromise. If either one of you or the both of you are unwilling to do this then it will only get worse.

Answer 3

girlwith, Hon sit down together and be totaly honest with each other. Invite Jesus into your love and if it is meant to be it will be !

Answer 4

Dont let him go if you really love him..
But try to be content and try to change your behavior :)
U'll regret later if u let him go
-best of luck

Answer 5

no!
u must talk to him first..
ask him to make a lil change bout himself.
bt, if there is no progress bout ur boy at all, i think u should dump him for good..
good luck dear.
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