Relationship Questions??????????????

Question

I have a few questions mainly for the men.
1. How come guys never want to be in a relationship?
2. If he says he's not ready for a relationship, how long does it usually take for him to want one?
3. I know this guy who is 27, when do you think he would be ready for a steady relationship?
4. If a guy says he just wants to be friends, in due time do you think he'll want to be more? and would I be crazy if I wait?
5. What makes a guy decide to settle down or be in a long term relationship?

Answer 1

If you are asking this about a single particular guy, then he may just not be interested in a relationship with *you*. It sounds harsh but he's trying to be nice about it anyway.

Of course, it could just be about time (for whatever that is) and maybe someday he would want a relationship, and he would want it with you, but you shouldn't wait around for him. He may think that you will just be there for him whenever he gets around to being ready and you may have passed up a far more wonderful guy while waiting around for this one.

The answer to your #5, unfortunately is usually "the right girl" - so it sounds like maybe you aren't it. He may figure out later that you are, but I wouldn't take that chance.