When I broke up with her 2 months ago I wanted to stay friends and I still really cared about her. She took the break up badly and eventually i cut contact completely. She begged me not to but I did. Now Ive tried contacting her and shes very weird about everything. She said just like I showed no compassion shes showing none and leaving me out of her life. Shes pretty stubborn about this. What do I do, I miss her so much?
2007-11-28 05:06:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey, you broke up with her. You broke her heart. Made her feel like dirt and all that kind of stuff 2 months ago. That made you feel pretty powerful didn't it? You were the BIG MAN.
So after all you've done to her what makes you think that she would want a cruel, selfish, unfeeling person back in her life?
Frankly I don't blame her. You blew it buster.
2007-11-28 05:11:50 · answer #1 · answered by Barbara B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you want to remain friends does not mean she is obligated to feel the same. It is a lot easier to say and do this when you aren't the person who was dumped.
You obviously represent a hard time for her that she does not want to constantly re-live by talking to you. Not only that, but it could be confusing to her to have the person who dumped her constantly calling and trying to be her friend and telling her that you miss her.
Just leave her be and move on.
2007-11-28 13:15:14 · answer #2 · answered by tinyavenger 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cut her out so its best to leave her alone. she knows how u feel so let her contact u if she wants to. if she doesnt then just respect that and move on
2007-11-28 13:10:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its probably because you hurt her so much the first time , that she isnt sure she wants it to happen again
2007-11-28 13:10:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a women scorned....she will forgive but never forget. give it time.
2007-11-28 13:11:54 · answer #5 · answered by Audamar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋