okay theres this boy iv been geting onto lol
and i dont know what the signs are that this boy likes me :S
its confusing coz sometimes he says how much he thinks im fit and then other times hes just like acts like im his girl mate :S
what are the signs this guy likes me or nt?
2007-11-28 04:26:23 · 22 answers · asked by sexybabe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask him and find out instead of playing the guessing game
2007-11-28 04:28:49 · answer #1 · answered by ?? yaddajean ?? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It seems like he has some confused feelings about what he really wants out of this relationship. He either wants just sex or he really wants a secure, loving relationship. Some signs that you may know he is into you is that he calls a lot, he finds time to come and see you, etc. Hope this helped.
2007-11-28 04:36:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could always just be straight up. "Hey are you into me or what"? I as a guy much prefer the no BS approach.
If you're not that forward....here are signs.
Not sure how old you are but since you said boy I assume you're young. As a 27 yeard old if I'm into someone and we work together. I ask to take them out to lunch.
Otherwise be sure you're flirting and giving signals that you're into him. He might feel like you're not into him so he might pull back some.
2007-11-28 05:34:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My son, Thomas, has a nice poem that will reveal the answer:
"Is it love or is it gas?
That's the question you must ask?
If in doubt just sniff the air,
If it smells get out of there! "
True wisdom! But if you are like me, you don't really care whether or not it is true love or mere lust. Lust is fine. None of us would probably be here without it. Great sex does not require true love or vice versa. Nobody would knock one night stands if they knew some of the ones I've had.
2007-11-28 04:32:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
by the sound of things, both of you must be teenagers. im not being offensive, but im just saying that by meaning that teenage boys are really still confused and dont really know what they wont; especially when it comes to females. if he likes spending time with you, or even just conversating with you he could like you. or if he didnt do those things, he could still like you. the only real way to know is to get up the guts to go ask him. the worse that could happen is that he say "no" but atleast then you will know.
2007-11-28 04:31:17 · answer #5 · answered by jelly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends..guys naturally hit on girls and always give them compliments, well guys that are not shy at least..test out whether this guyreally likes you though, be a lil flirty but dont come across as too interested in him..hint at the prospect of you and him getting together..and see if he gets the hint, then hopefully he'll ask you out and things will take off from there..
just remember to come across as available, a lil interested and then if the guy really likes you he should defnitely make a move, unless his a bit shy
2007-11-28 04:33:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey there,
sorry you are having bloke trouble! From what you have written sounds like he doesn't know what he wants! How long have you known him? maybe you should just ask him out right and see how he really feels! Is it possible that he doesn't want to ruin the friendship that you have?
they are just a few things to think about but i hope that they help.
keep smilling ;-)
2007-11-28 04:34:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok first off how old are you, because not to offend you or anything from the question you posted it seems like maybe you are to young to be dating. If I am wrong then the best way to find out if he likes you is to be blunt and just ask him.
2007-11-28 04:30:24 · answer #8 · answered by shorty937222000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just the fact that he talks to you all the time and spends time with you is a sign cuz if he didnt like yuo he would prob not want to be near u so much..
2007-11-28 04:47:45 · answer #9 · answered by ashley_nunya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you just forget about signs and stuff and just talk about it with him...bcause signs get you all confused and u think they mean one thing but they mean another thing... so just talk it out and everyone can be on the same page...and ur feelings wont be tossed around that much
2007-11-28 04:31:04 · answer #10 · answered by lorennys2002 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋