me to come over to spend time with him im confused
2007-11-28 03:47:29 · 17 answers · asked by maria p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
DON'T do it. He's messing with your head.. He obviously is not your man anymore, you can do so much better.
2007-11-28 03:50:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're not the confused one...he is. Sounds like he's having second thoughts or is looking for freebies-if ya know what I mean. And he's not your man if he doesn't want to be with you, sweetie. You deserve better. So.....
End it now before you find yourself in some complicated, tangled up messy relationship that you didn't bargain for...tell him nicely to stop calling you & move on as you have, then wish him well before you say goodbye......and mean it. You'll be better off if you do......
2007-11-28 11:57:41 · answer #2 · answered by The Original GarnetGlitter 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree, this is a booty call. PLease move on. This guy does not care for you as he his hurting and mixing up your feelings. A man that care about a woman would not put them through this stress. He wants your body but not you as a person. SHe what happens if you go over their and just talk. Will he listen to you or try to get you in bed with him????
2007-11-28 11:53:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back off of him. If he's just using you, you are better off without him, and if he's created the space because he's afraid of commitment, then he'll have to live without you for awhile for him to realize the commitment was better than living without you - but if you keep seeing him like this - nothing will change and he'll end up moving on with someone new - not you.
2007-11-28 11:53:43 · answer #4 · answered by wellbeing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Correction: he is not your man anymore.
I think there is not confusion at all, he prolly just wants to be friends with you. Relationship finished but friendship could stay if you want.
I think you should let him go and put in your mind that he is not your man, he is YOUR EX so he must be in past
2007-11-28 11:51:19 · answer #5 · answered by C6 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He might be feeling trapped, but on the other hand he still want's you in his lifee. Or if he's like some guy's he might just be trying to have his cake and eat it too. So you might have to talk to him about it. And then do wat's right for you.
2007-11-28 11:58:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be confused. If he doesn't respect you enough not to hurt your feelings then he doesn't love you. It sounds like he's enjoying the power of getting a reaction out of you.
2007-11-28 11:50:40 · answer #7 · answered by Yuki 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he probably wants sex or misses u as a friend, if i wr you id say no you dont want to be with me and im hurting it would only be worse if i came an met you, i need to get over you
2007-11-28 12:08:57 · answer #8 · answered by lilhails 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is playing you. As they say, "He wants his cake, and eat it too." In other words he wants it both ways. Don't be a sucker. Get rid of him and find someone who appreciates you, because he sure doesn't.
2007-11-28 11:53:09 · answer #9 · answered by CarolSandyToes1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even though he has said these things to you, are you a doormat for this guy? you are better than that! if dont love you anymore, dont be a fool and sleep with him...let his ***rot
2007-11-28 11:56:43 · answer #10 · answered by denisefow 45 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋