So my girl broke up with me this summer. And its the first holiday season ill be spending alone in three years..kinda sucks. Anyone else spending it without that special someone? and how are you dealing with that?
2007-11-28 03:19:34 · 6 answers · asked by ralj86 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why spend it alone?
Each year for Thanksgiving and Christmas I have a huge dinner for everyone in our motorcycle group who can't get home for the holidays. It's a great time for everyone.
Get together with family and friends or volunteer at a soup kitchen. Create Christmas for a needy family.
Sometimes, doing things to make someone else happy takes your mind off your own sadness.
2007-11-28 03:28:11 · answer #1 · answered by Collette L 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I've never had a boyfriend on ANY holiday ever in my life. So spending the holidays without a significant other isn't a big deal. Spending the holidays without my family, on the other hand, is a big deal. And yes, I'll be spending mine alone. It's just me and my cat. I just do what I can to make those days seem special to me, even if I'm not with anyone else.
2007-11-28 03:28:12 · answer #2 · answered by Erin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Over my lifetime I even have spent many holiday trips on my own for the comparable motives as you. My family contributors became into around the country and that i could no longer get day off from my pastime to circulate to them. I consistently tried to make the terrific of the day via doing some thing that I enjoyed. One Thanksgiving I volunteered to artwork on my own babysitting a very long laptop technique on account that I had no plans and everybody else became into married with infants. I spent the day interior the laptop room reading books and magazines. approximately each 0.5 hour the telephone might ring and it would be considered one of my co-workers or a supervisor only checking to be certain how i became into doing. At our Christmas party that 12 months my colleagues provided me with 'the main Unselfish man or woman' award. That became into 35 years in the past and that i nonetheless recollect it.
2016-11-12 23:13:14 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same here...broke up with my bf three months ago after being together a year....two weeks later he telling some other girl he loves her...and now I'm alone for the holidays....i'm spending time at the gym to get rid of my anger/frustration and to distract myself from the memories of us on vacations, in hot tubs, etc....that's how I'm getting through...also family and friends help....good luck and know that you aren't the only one out there upset right now
2007-11-28 03:28:55 · answer #4 · answered by Future Cat Lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sprending it alone , i'm spending with my dad , but i guess you can i'll be kind of sad sense my bf won't be there but it's ok. I have my dad and sometimes that 's all you need your family . Hope this helps .
Have a Happy Holiday !!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-11-28 03:33:11 · answer #5 · answered by Sarah L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im single but i have family so im fine....but my twin wont be home for xmas (first time) so that REALLY sucks....its gonna be a sad xmas....
2007-11-28 03:24:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋