ladies..would you marry someone like me?...im very very unique...unique because im 20years old,ive never smoked,drinked,never had a girlfriend,never been on a date,never kissed a female(or a male lol),never hugged a female,never held hands walked a park or anything,and most important,im still a virgin....thats why im unique and also when we get married i would like for it to be a sexless but very very touchy marriage touchy i mean as you know theres alot of touching,kissing,hugging..and i forgot to mention..im very very very shy so thats why i wudnt want to have sex,and i LOVE to travel the world you know all the diffrent cities in europe,snowy mountain areas,africa,australia,and also financial problems would not be an issue...since im about to be a Vice president of a huge corporation in a few months...so would you marry a male like me?
2007-11-28 03:14:34 · 31 answers · asked by ESPN NEWS 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, so long as I can sleep around.
If you're really looking to get married, you should probably get a little more comfortable with the idea of a woman. It might be helpful to buy a few pronographic magazines, frequenting a strip club, and eventually working up to hiring a prostitute to help you acclimate yourself with T&A.
2007-11-28 03:18:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
Sorry, no. I am a very physical person. Sex would be important if I was to get married, though I'm not saying it's the most important thing. I don't care about money in that way. I hope to have enough to pay my bills and afford the occasional luxury. I don't have to travel the world, though it would be fun. Also, being a virgin.... well, I could take it or leave it. Virginity isn't of high importance to me. And oh yeah, you're too young for me.
2007-11-28 11:25:28 · answer #2 · answered by Erin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im only 17 but I know you. Because im the same ive never kissed never held hands i've only ever hugged my bfs when I had them. But if you want to marry a woman your gonna have to be a little bit more bold. If you get married and your wife wants to have sex your gonna kinda have to. And your gonna have to date to get a wife. Oh and by the way i've never been on a date and yes im still a virgin so if your unique i must be to. And yeah a lot of women would more than likely marry you.
2007-11-28 11:21:34 · answer #3 · answered by Cowgirl38 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No. sex is a normal part of a marriage. You are young and need to relax about the sex thing. When you find the right person, you will want to experience it with them. It is normal to be shy, but don't say you want a sexless marriage, because that is not normal. If you want kids, sex will be necessary too. If you have any real hangups about sex, they have therapists for this, but I think you are just young and inexperienced.
2007-11-28 11:21:52 · answer #4 · answered by kiddkosmic 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. You might be a really quiet guy, I kinda of love bubly people that have no walls up. And because you've had no relaionship experience you might need some work at that, and kissing, and holding hands, it all depends on the type of guy you are, obviously if you havent drank you smoked, and have saved yourself this long, you have respect for yourselves which you could definitely be respecting towards someone special and sweet too. If we were in some crazy situation like that I'd get to to know first, if we fit like puzzle pieces, of course.
2007-11-28 11:20:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think a lot of women would have a problem with not being more physical with you, as it's something that creates a unique bond between a couple. However, I am sure that there are also women out there who wouldn't mind this kind of relationship/marriage. It's all a case of finding that right one.
2007-11-28 11:18:35 · answer #6 · answered by Oh, brilliant. -_- 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude at 20, you are hardly ready for marriage. Don't worry about it now. That is why all these women have basically said no. Your other qualities are attractive etc. As for your no-sex attitude. Well that might be a problem. While that would be great for a long bf/gf courtship, you could pass it off for "waiting untill marriage", when you are married, sex is a very important part of your marriage. If you are so scared about it, perhaps you could consult with a Sex therapist. Do not misundertand me. These therapists are liscensed therapists who specialize with sexual anxiety and disfuntion issues. They could help you with that problem. Trust me, with some professional help, wonders can be made.
If you allow me to be bold, a good girl for you, would be someone with weight issues (to put it mildly), in other words a girl who is fat. These women, sadly, often hate themselves so much because of their bodies (Not all do, but lots do), that they would be ecstatic that a man would be attracted to them, who was not interested in sex. It would take so much pressure off of them, that they could finally women again.
For now man, enjoy being a youngster, when you start to get old like me, you will regret you didn't have more fun at 20.
2007-11-28 11:28:37 · answer #7 · answered by John L 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Yes i would marry you.not because of the job status or the money,you seem to be very happy and settled in life,and those are the key factors. But what is up with the no sex?I think once you get married,you will change your mind about that. you sound as if you are very particular about the partners you choose.That woman is going to sweep you off your feet and you will be ready!
2007-11-28 11:19:40 · answer #8 · answered by crissy 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i didnt read all, i read the first paragraph, and no i wouldnt marry you. you have had 0 experience when it comes to life, love and relationships and i wouldnt have to patience to care for you or teach you. i want someone who knows what they are doing when it comes to romance, love, kissing, touching, etc. PLUS, the biggest reason of all, YOU DONT WANT SEX just touching. and you would be home all day everyday cause you dont go out and would work from home, i would get sick of you really quick, and since you dont go out, it means you have no friends, and would be too clingy on me... sorry bud, you have issues and i dont wanna be a part of them.
Alot of this answer has to do with your new post in which you just deleted.
2007-11-29 11:10:51 · answer #9 · answered by louie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey. i was shy too at first about the whole "having sex" thing. you really will get used to revealing your body to your significant other in due time. sex is just too good to miss out on. i think you have many qualities that i would enjoy, but it is clear that you need some dating experience before you settle down. it wouldnt be right to just throw you into a marriage because you are shy. good luck though =)
2007-11-28 11:22:20 · answer #10 · answered by lizzyb 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋