When she was a kid I loved her TO DEATH. I gave her anything she wanted, no matter what, if I had it. She's grown now (27) & the last few years she's been a sickening ******, attitude, silent treatment, her attitude pollutes the atmosphere & you dont want to be around her. She's selfish, always asks for money, lives above her means, mismanages her money, inconsiderate, doesnt give anybody sh.it for their birthday but expects on HERS. She cops attitudes over dumb sh.it, takes things personal & 4 yrs ago we got into a fistfight because she kept teasing me, I ask her to stop & she didnt. I got sick of her & said something that hurt her feelings bad, she got in my face, I decked her, we started fighting. I didnt know she pulled a knife but someone did. They grab her arm & took it away from her. We had another "problem" this summer. To avoid fighting I just stayed away from her but I apologized to keep peace in the family but I cant STAND her anymore. I really dislike her - am I wrong?
2007-11-28 03:14:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Yes you're wrong. Part of being an adult is teaching our young people the proper way to handle conflict. This doesn't mean you have to take crap off of someone. It means knowing how to put someone in check without physical confrontation. After a certain age fist fights are for the school grounds and if you're old enough to be out of early high school then physical violence is out of the question. As for are you wrong for disliking a rude and selfish person, no. You are entitled to feel how you want. It's how you handle it that counts.
2007-11-28 03:24:02 · answer #1 · answered by Nasra 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you're not wrong. Once things got physical I say protect your body and your sanity. Something may be really wrong with her but, until she can be in a place to recieve help I say stay as far away as possible
2007-11-28 03:33:12 · answer #2 · answered by Yuki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'd tell you to try and get her into therapy but they will just turn her into a codependent : |
Learn to say NO. They were taught that that word is abusive but not everyone is or was dumb enough to fall for that.
2007-11-28 04:29:00 · answer #3 · answered by GoodQuestion 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't even go to functions if she was there, if everyone did that, she may wake up or stop going alltogether herself. It sounds like she got everything handed to her when she was little, so she never learned to be considerate and appreciative.
2007-11-28 04:10:09 · answer #4 · answered by stacey e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. Stay away from her, she sounds psycho.
2007-11-28 03:22:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wrong
2007-11-28 03:16:54 · answer #6 · answered by Rana 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋