I recently moved 100 miles, and one of my best friends (female) came to visit me. We were messing around and I ended up kissing her (I do like her & she has liked me in the past). She after, said that she needed time to think. Then 4 days later, I got a text from her about something random to do with one of our friends. I replied, and she didn't reply. Then about a week later, I sent her an email about what happened before, & that if she wanted to forget about it, just say so. If not, then just say that we will go out for dinner when we got home. That was a week ago, and I haven't heard from her since. Should I just not contact her, and wait for her to contact me, or just send her a message asking how she is?
2007-11-28 02:40:16 · 7 answers · asked by dafadf a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just wait for her to contact you don't insist
2007-11-28 02:44:22 · answer #1 · answered by ★HigHTƹcH★ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems to me she needs time. Give her the space and time she needs and wait for her to contact you. In between, you can send her a text or an Email reminding her that you're still there whatever she decides. Careful not to seem pushy though.
2007-11-28 10:45:46 · answer #2 · answered by Oh, brilliant. -_- 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait for her to contact you she could be trying to figure the whole thing out and not no what to do about.
2007-11-28 10:45:11 · answer #3 · answered by uessoftballbabe_11 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her at least a week to decompress and let her absorb what just happened in that way,she will be able to think about whats best between the 2 of you
2007-11-28 10:44:32 · answer #4 · answered by Lionel M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It`s obvious that she didn`t get the thrill out of the kiss that you did. Allow her to respond in her own time, otherwise you come across as pathetic.
2007-11-28 10:46:53 · answer #5 · answered by jms043 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her alone and then contact her after a period of time, she will miss you
2007-11-28 10:45:21 · answer #6 · answered by newingtonnewington 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask how she is....probably trying to figure what your intentions are....just be friends as normal
2007-11-28 10:43:56 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋