I want to, but I am afraid to. I have not ever even touched another girl or even tried to be lesbian. I am also afraid that I will be overtaken with jealousy. I am very devoted to my boyfriend and we share a very strong and steady relationship, but I am afraid that if we try it, I will stop him and his ex- girlfriend in the middle of the act and say, I can't do it. We have already tried a threesome with another guy, but it didn't work for us, so he wanted to try it with another girl- his ex. I don't know what to do! I thought that maybe if he doesn't kiss her, I won't get jealous. I want to make my boyfriend happy, but I don't know if I want to do this with his ex. The biggest part of my problem is jealousy. I mean, we had talked about it and I said that I would do a threesome, but I did NOT know that he had his ex in mind. She is willing. My boyfriend had never touched her and I am not really sure if I want him touching her. I want to do this 3some, but maybe not with her. Help!!!!!!
2007-11-28 02:26:56 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you're really into doing the 3some, maybe the best way to do that without taking yourself out of the comfort level is to find someone that you do not know as well, and definitely not his ex. cause there was that attraction...
speak to him ab it... communication with him and see if u can change the person he wants to include with it.
2007-11-28 02:31:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ex Threesome
2016-10-29 03:09:37 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are an awesome girlfriend for wanting to try a threesome but do not get involve with his ex girlfriend. Unless the threesome you tried the first time was with your ex boyfriend. I would say tell him NO to his ex girlfriend but you would not mind trying it with different girl. Good Luck!!!!
2007-11-28 02:40:43 · answer #3 · answered by Flipper 3 · 3⤊ 3⤋
A threesome is a great idea... however, an ex girlfriend is a recipe for disaster. You should be allowed to pick the other girl. Go pick a girl, see if he agrees, and you will have a much better time.
2007-11-28 02:36:48 · answer #4 · answered by Julius 2 · 3⤊ 2⤋
If you are comfortable with a threesome I say do it, but the ex is probably a bad idea. Tell him to find a different girl that you don't know and he doesn't have any feelings for. That way there is not that extra complication.
2007-11-28 02:32:12 · answer #5 · answered by Claddagh 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
No you shouldn't...
The problem is not that you're jealous; it's that you have reasonable expectations of commitment, love, and devotion, and these things don't apply to a threesome--which is purely physical. If you're boyfriend was as devoted to you and your feelings as you are to him, he wouldn't even suggest that you do this--with an ex especially, which adds insult to injury.
Yuck. Walk away from this.
2007-11-28 02:33:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Ummmm ok let me tell you what an old boyfriend said to me once "never do a threesome with somone your serious with it will just ruin the relationship" and you should tell your boy hes insane for wanting it with an ex how would he feel if you 2 did it with one of your ex boys
2007-11-28 02:37:32 · answer #7 · answered by just me 1 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Why on earth would he want a threesome with his girlfriend and his ex?!!? His ex?! c'mon theres gotta be something going on there.
2007-11-28 02:33:20 · answer #8 · answered by Kay 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Seriously? NO!!!!!!!!!! Its his ex. Thats a no no. If you're gonna have a threesome it needs to be someone he wasn't emotionally involved with. Its a bad idea. Find someone else
2007-11-28 02:33:16 · answer #9 · answered by jadethechemgeek 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that's stupid .. I don't understand how a partner could ask you to have a threesome. It'd be kind of offensive especially with someone like that....
2007-11-28 03:12:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋