I'm 19 He's 18
I'm jewish He's catholic
I study He studies
I work He works
we live far, we are both cute looking, polite and quite smart.
but I don't know...!,I mean he's 18, I can't imagine telling my family or friends that I'm dating a guy who is younger than me, when all my friends have bfs of 25.
Also I'm not much into him, but it's been a while since I don't have a bf, so should I date for desesperation?
thanks for the answers!
2007-11-28 01:40:28 · 30 answers · asked by natalia k 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
come on. You study? Then you have a brain... dont date some one out of desperation and hunny if you are in college studying I think you need a course on spelling and grammer. I am sorry if that sounds rude, if you are the type of girl just do him, DONT date him. He can be your dirty little secret. FOR GOODNESS sake be sure to wear protection and dont be stupid about it. Can you imagine having to tell your un-accepting family your pregnant? One year younger isnt that bad and you can always lie to your family about his age and say hes the same as you, its not like your going to marry him or something.
2007-11-28 01:45:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
When I listen what u say it seems like u are 14!
Grow up!
Age doesn't matter, especially one year!
And so what if your friends have boyfriends age 25, so what!???
So what if u are Jewish and he is whatever!?
You even don't like him?!!! What?
Is it really a good way to start a relationship after all this and only for a reason you didn't have boyfriend for some time!?
2007-11-28 09:48:13 · answer #2 · answered by mima 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let his age and religion turn you off on dating this man. Yes he is younger than you are, but only by a year. It isn't like you are dating someone's kid. I know it is traditional that he is supposed to be older than she, but don't let silly traditions get in the way of deciding who you should or shouldn't date.
If you really aren't into him, then don't date him. If you do decide to go on a date with him, then that is fine too. Just let him know that it is only a date and just go out with him just to get yourselves out of the house. Besides, what is the worst that can happen besides that he turns out to be a creep? You might actually like him once you get to know him?
Besides, it is better to be frustrated than desperate. Be open to meeting and seeing other people. You don't have to do anything intimate with the guy.
2007-11-28 09:48:47 · answer #3 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him and he makes you happy date him. Don't worry what others will think, it's your life do what you want. But, never date out of desperation you will only hurt each other in the end. No one really cares about age differences, everyone would date some older or younger then themsleves if they enjoyed their company.
2007-11-28 09:52:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. You dont like him but you want to date him just to have a boyfriend? Unless he has a clear understanding of that, then you'd be messing with his feelings and you'll end up breaking his heart. The age thing seems to bother you too, even though one year is nothing. You're both still teens for crap sakes. Wait and find someone that you're not ashamed of, and someone that youre really interested in, not just someone who is convenient.
2007-11-28 09:46:21 · answer #5 · answered by Dani 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To tell the truth, this might end up kind of messy!!!! That desperation thing will get you really quick!!! Plus if you are really not into him don't go with him. Just tell him in a nice and polite way that you just want to remind friends with him because you are not feeling what he's feeling!!!!
Hoping for the best in your decision!!!!
2007-11-28 09:45:21 · answer #6 · answered by kishika05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. i think if u don't like him that much and u don't like the age then just forget it. especially since the religion issue. and hey i really want a bf too. i haven't had one in a while but, no need to rush. just enjoy the single life and a guy you actually like that has the same interests as you,will come along....it may take a while but, just enjoy the single life until then. go out and treat yourself!! =D BeSt oF LuCk! =P
2007-11-28 11:03:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmm... probably not! Thats horrible! Date out of desperation??? Wow! Seems like you have some issues!
Not to mention, older guys are more mature and intuned to a womans needs!
GL
2007-11-28 09:43:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF you dont already feel him now, you probably wont anytime in the future. I would not worry about your friends dating older guys, to each his own. But it just sounds like you are boredom dating. I have done this and they usually end up gaga over you and they they are like leaches to get rid of. I think you already answered your own question--"im not much into him".
2007-11-28 09:45:25 · answer #9 · answered by pupgirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, one year's difference is nothing! I wouldn't let that stop you at all. Just think... if you were twenty years in the future, you'd be 39 and he'd be 38... certainly no biggie! ;)
As for desperation, that's totally up to you. You could just "hang" with him, keep it casual.
2007-11-28 09:43:44 · answer #10 · answered by Cindy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋