Should I dare or not? Pls only serious answers.?

Question

I'm a straight 23 year old female with a normal sex life but I get turned on by male/male action like you wouldn't believe. So lately I've been thinking about asking my bf if he wants us to try something with another guy. My bf isn't homophobic and knows about my little fetish but still I'm afraid to ask him. Should I just drop it and if not how should I go about it?

Answer 1

Be honest with him. It is almost always best to be honest. The worst thing he could say is no, and even if he did, it would probably be because he is uncomfortable with it even though he is not homophobic.

Answer 2

Let's look at the options

He doesn't like it, and starts to wonder why you're asking. Opens all sorts of questions about insecurity

He DOES like it - in which case, why does he need you, he's found this whole new side of his life.

So far this doesn't seem like a really good idea if you want to maintain a relationship with this guy. If sex is an expression of love - then sharing it with other people gets really weird.

if sex is just a fun, physical activity with no meaning at all -then you don't need to ask the question, do you?

Answer 3

ur saying that ur straight and that is the best thing in human life ,the sexual exchange is very chastite between both a man and a women , u might be thinking of the idea of sharing it with third guy but i don't think its a good idea ... trying it depends on your partner some do like it and some not ,but if u want to know abt him ask him BUT as a general question and don't mention that u want it , and if he said yes its a good idea ,dont speak direct at the same time ...after few days later u can ask if he wants to try it .... otherwise its better to forget it ....u know its kinda unconfort idea .

Answer 4

well if he already knows that you think about these things then sure he won't be to shocked of you asking him. when he found out that you like this sort of thing how did he act?? not to badly surely other wise you properly wouldn't still be together. there's no harm in asking i mean he can only say yes or no but how do you know what he will say if you don't ask????? i may what to try asking him if he would like some girl to girl action for hes enjoyment too. don't know what you think about that but it would prove that you not being selfish and that you want him to have some fun as well as your self!!! good luck and take care

Answer 5

Nah.. I'd prolly just keep that to myself. Calling in a third person could cause some serious problems and complicate things in the long run.

Answer 6

just drop it. no man wants to be asked about that UNLESS they have openly declared that they like it. Their egos are too fragile. And it's your fetish not his.

Answer 7

you will possibly desire to no longer have any kinda intercourse together with her in case you probably did have intercourse i could no longer even think of approximately being round her back you will possibly desire to get a woman pal and attempt to no longer think of approximately her nicely nonetheless think of approximately her in basic terms no longer the intercourse section any in basic terms think of in case you had intercourse the the remainder of your existence being arond her or yoir mom and dad in the event that they found out i do no longer think of you will possibly desire to have intercourse together with her

Answer 8

i'd drop it.people i know who have tried this sort of thing have all come to grief.three's a crowd

Answer 9

ask him...what could it hurt.I'm sure even if he doesn't want to he wouldn't hold asking against you.

Answer 10

just go for it ask him and if he don't just keep watching.