So my bf and I recently broke up...during our break up he met another female. He said...?

Question

he was only trying to have sex with her and seemed so disgusted at the fact that she was 9 yrs older than him and she had a kid (11). my bf is 20. He gave me the impression that he was never going to talk to her again.

So a few nights ago he called her, and she called him back. I was in the room and he pretty much said he just wanted to see how she was doing. (Mind you this is the same drunk slut he met at the bar kissing on another girl)..

last night i saw in his phone that he texted her again, wondering how she was...

is it just me or does it seem like there might be more.

He said she was a cool person, and the night after they met they talked for like 30 mins. when she was sober...

I am just so confused, and we are still broken up but we were suppose to be working on our relationship and trying to get back together.

Answer 1

Looks like he thinks ya'll are broken up and you think that ya'll are just taking time apart. You need to talk to him and ask him what is the status of youre relationship. If you are broken up then it is none of your business anyway.

Answer 2

Moving right along!!! You guys broke up, and he couldn't wait to go out an get his dick wet,with some mole who has a child but is out at some bar, pashing another mole.......yeh hes defiantely a keeper, a real class act....sarcasm intended!!! Hes a loser, and yeh if hes still texting her then theres something there, he might think that shes a bit more adventurous in the sex department, and he wants to experiment or something. Either way, move along and find someody willing to give as much as they take.
P.S-if you decide to stay with him, make sure he gets tested for any diseases he may have contracted from mum of the year.

Answer 3

it could really be nothing.
sometimes guys are honest and just like to check up and see how people are doin. i have lots of guys friends that i was in a previous relationships with that i talk to and that call me just to see what's new in my life. if you guys are trying to work things out try not to jump to conclusions. if it bothers you that he's talking to other women, well it's really not your place, you said that you two are still broken up. but if you feel like he's not trying to get you back, then tell him how you feel. from what you've mentioned- it just sounds like you're unsure of your potential man and kinda jealous that he's got friends of the female sort.
be the better person. maybe this break should last just a little bit longer so that he can prove to you that he still wants to be with you. if you feel like you're the only one, then maybe it's time to move on.
good luck with your life.

Answer 4

if i were you, i wouldnt want this guy.(mind the fact i am a guy myself) but he obviously is interested in this girl, weither it be for sexual reasons on relationship wise, you should move on, find somone else. if all he is after is sex, then you can be sure thats what he wants with you as well. alot of guys are like this, be it apparent or not.

i hope i helped you
best regards
Chris

Answer 5

don't waste your time on so guy that only wants to get laid after ya'll just broke up. there are other fish in the sea

Answer 6

Until you two decide what you are going to do, he is going to do what ever it is he wants to do. YOu need to monitor his actions before you make any concrete decisions

Answer 7

theres definately more going on ...ditch him ..he dosent know what he want and i dont think you know what u want either ..good luck

Answer 8

he dont want just one honey-so if you don't want to share then move along.

Answer 9

so tell that girl he's yours