im 16 years old and being with my boyfriend over a month now and we both want children and planning on trying for one in December is it to early or what?
2007-11-27 22:40:17 · 20 answers · asked by xxlilmisscxx 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
yeah ive left school my boyfriends got a good job that pays well ive known him years and we was together a while ago but we was too young then!!
2007-11-27 22:55:38 · update #1
Ive got my high school degrees!!!
2007-11-27 22:58:59 · update #2
hes the one who said we should try for a child so he isnt going to run out on me and his mum and mine would support us!!
2007-11-29 11:56:05 · update #3
hes the one who said we should try for a child so he isnt going to run out on me and his mum and mine would support us!!
2007-11-29 11:56:06 · update #4
i feel that if you are ready for a baby and you can support one together well go for it. dont let nothing stop ya. its your life and your body and you should know what feels right or not. good luck
2007-11-27 22:48:42 · answer #1 · answered by mummy of 4 babies :) 6 · 1⤊ 4⤋
It's way to young, enjoy being young. You will probably regret it in a few years if you don't wait. It's a lot for a woman's body to go through with both the pregnancy and giving birth. I am 27 and just had my first and it took a lot out of me so I don't think I would have managed well at 16. I have also been able to enjoy my life by going out and doing the things that you can't do with kids. Good luck I hope you make the right decision
2007-11-27 23:34:33 · answer #2 · answered by banditqueen1980 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What resources are you going to be able to offer to your child? You won't have finished high school so you envision what sort of job FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE? Or do you think your boyfriend's "career" is going to be sufficient to handle all the financial requirements of being a parent?
You are 16. You are going to be alive for probably another 60 years. You have another 20+ years to have a child with your partner.
Why don't you wait until you at least have a high school degree. 2 out of the next 60 years is not that long.
2007-11-27 22:57:55 · answer #3 · answered by apleyden 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are still a baby yourself and have a lot of living to do! Have you finished school, do you have a good job to support this baby you are planning on conceiving? You have only been with this boy for a month, you need to know each other a lot better before you plan a family together. Why don't you ask your mother what she thinks about you having a baby with your boyfriend and take her advice!
2007-11-27 22:50:27 · answer #4 · answered by Jasper 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
just wait a little bit longer becore you actually decide to -have- children.
I mean, yeah go crazy have sex, do whatever, but plz don't have children until you're a little bit older.
I'm not saying that you're to young to have a child, but think bout it for a little bit. It's better that you to conceive at a later date, like you're still growing yourself, give it a year or two.
by one or two years time, if you still want a baby, you'll have spare money handy and, you should go right ahead. At least by waiting it out you're doing what's best for the child, and that's the main thing you have to consider when it comes to parenting; the child's needs come before yours.
2007-11-27 23:24:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's too early in more ways then one!
First off you're too young
Second the relationship is way way way too young, you guys barely know eachother
Third: who's gonna take care of the baby and how? By what means?
Get to know this guy first, get yourself an education and when you're a little older you can start trying. At least you then will be able to take care of yourself and a baby if he flakes out
2007-11-27 22:59:53 · answer #6 · answered by lievedebs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Way too early. enjoy your youth and at least finish high school. You've only been together over a month? Please....that's not even long enough to know if you two will work out. Why do you young teens want babies so badly? Get a babysitting job, voulunteer at a chidren's program....just dont become a young, unwed, high school mom.
Edit: Go back to school too.....you need an education to fall back on.
2007-11-27 22:44:43 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Mommy to 3 year old Jacob and baby on the way♥ 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You are kidding right?
You don't know someone after a month, babies put a huge strain on the best of relationships, never mind a young one between two kids.
Have fun, play safe and in 4 years time if you are still together and in love then maybe think about it!
2007-11-27 22:52:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
1.) You're WAY too young to "plan for a baby".
2.) 1 month is TOO SHORT of a timespan to have "dated" someone before becoming parents. You barely know eachother.
This is all common sense, no offense. Don't be surprised if you get other negative answers. We're just looking out for you, and trying to prevent you from making a mistake.
2007-11-27 22:50:58 · answer #9 · answered by :-) 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Seriously you must be joking!
1. You are 16 years old no where near mature enough for a baby!
2. Hello! You've been with your bloke for 1 month don't be ridiculous!! Anything could happen you don't even know if it will last!!
You would be very selfish to have a baby now!!
2007-11-27 22:52:01 · answer #10 · answered by Babydoll 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Waaaaayyyy too young.
Having a baby takes alot more than you could even imagine when you are 16.
If you really love one another just enjoy being together, and having a good time. You have the rest of your life for babies.
2007-11-27 22:48:38 · answer #11 · answered by Kimberly W 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋